I picked up this mediocre looking chick at a bar recently (pic on the left is NOT her). I haven’t done bar pickups in months because I have a new girlfriend, but I was with my wing Lilly and we both needed the practice so there we were.
My opening line to the set: “You two look interesting.” Easy hook from there. I had a phone number and an invite to tour her facility (she works in an art space) within 15 minutes.
I have since met up with this chick, who I’ll call Anna, three times since the PU. The first time we had lunch and that was super duper boring. She talked a mile-a-minute and I couldn’t get a word in edge-wise, which combined with the setting meant I couldn’t generate any attraction. I dipped out of lunch quickly and figured I’d never see the chick again.
The second time I engineered a meetup that same night at a bar. She left her dinner party from across town and met me. We shot pool, danced a little, and had a pretty good time. Minimal talking. We made out at the bar and I took her to my house. We made out on my couch for about an hour. She was a lousy kisser. Because of this, I opted not to push for the lay and I sent her packing at 4:00 am. Plus, she talked too much.
The third time I met her downtown for drinks on her insistence…she had been texting me all day. I bounced us to several locations and ended the night at my favorite shitty, super-crowded bar. I like taking chicks to this bar because it’s wall-to-wall people, the sex energy is amped up, and it’s conducive to getting close and touching. You basically have to yell in someone’s ear to be heard. We had our hands on each other the whole time. I grabbed her ass like fifty times, which was aight.
Up until this point all of our conversations were lame and one-sided, with her doing most of the talking. This is really bad chick game, because she wasn’t engaging me in the convo and also not allowing me to contribute to the flow. In fact, it was so bad that when I did tell a story it interrupted the rhythm and felt like a trainwreck. Ladies, balanced convo is key, and let the guy lead the flow on the first couple of dates. If he can’t lead the flow, he’s not alpha.
Well, at the shitty bar the conversation got a lot better and we talked about relationships, sex, attraction, and game (in a meta sort of way). I amped up her buying temp massively and now she wants to sleep with me, which I’m on the fence about.
One thing we talked about was this. And keep in mind we were both drinking at the time. I said that when I act a little dumb, chicks want to sleep with me more. So, sometimes I act dumb on purpose, or perhaps more accurately, I act simple, and it creates attraction. She thought that was interesting and she admitted that she acted dumb sometimes because she knew that guys would want to fuck her more if she did.
What do you think? Does being dumb make us more fuckable? If this is true, why?