Comments on: What Women Are Looking For…Hell, Men Too!

By: Mens Divorce Tactics

Mens Divorce Tactics — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 16:28:48 +0000

Men, divorce should be considered as a last resort to fix a relationship problem. This type of procedure is very serious and it has to be a decision that is well thought out before attempting to start the process. When you are filing for divorce, you will want to notify the court that you are going to proceed with the dissolution of your marriage. You will file a summons and petition the court in your county. Before you decide to file for divorce, you will want to choose the proper state and county to file your papers. You must make sure that you are ready for the long haul in a divorce. There are going to be many different alternatives in a divorce proceeding. You will probably find it to be necessary to hire and attorney to take care of the proceedings in your divorce.

By: Weekend Roundup: Thanks To Our Peeps Edition | Honey and Lance

Weekend Roundup: Thanks To Our Peeps Edition | Honey and Lance — Sat, 08 Mar 2008 20:02:08 +0000

[...] lisaq: love it honey! i think a lot of people are missing #5…we don’t often remember that it’s okay… [...]

By: lisaq

lisaq — Fri, 07 Mar 2008 03:14:53 +0000

love it honey! i think a lot of people are missing #5...we don't often remember that it's okay to let your silliness show... lisaq's last blog post..How to Get the Girl...Advice for the Men.

By: Attraction: 4 key things that make you attractive…or unattractive…

Attraction: 4 key things that make you attractive…or unattractive… — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 14:46:31 +0000

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By: china blue

china blue — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 14:11:52 +0000

This is a great list, very perceptive.
#5 is very important to me – I will love a man forever who can make me laugh and isn’t afraid to be goofy. #1-3 also

#1 is interesting. How do you define ‘in control of your life’?

Well, if my recent ex-bf and a former fiancé have taught me anything, there’s nothing worse than a person who bitches and moans about their job, but is too scared to break out and follow their passions. Anyone who does that earns my attention and respect. And I’m not being a hardass, either. It’s about someone realising that their wages, their boss, their situation, do not have the last word. They do!

It shows fundamental insecurity of the worst kind, no matter how bullish and dominant the personality; I recognise this fear because I’ve also been stuck doing jobs I hate because I was too complacent and scared to go after my dream. And because I am now happy and fulfilled in my new career and chosen calling, anyone who isn’t is likely to find that threatening.

People generally define themselves by where they spend most of their lives – at work. And if you’re not happy there, the grief it causes – exhaustion, stress, illness, frustration, friction – means that every relationship you have outside of it is doomed to fail, because somewhere along the line you start taking these issues out on your partner, and they deserve much, much better.

china blue’s last blog post..‘If You’re Not Going to Play With Me, I’ll Just Play with Myself’

By: Lance

Lance — Thu, 06 Mar 2008 01:57:15 +0000

I insist on not knowing what your bf did with his spooge after wacking it. I haven't met him yet, and I don't want to be forced to regurgitate that story, as I am wont to do, when I do meet him. Lance's last blog post..5 Ways To Be More Attractive, Stop Sucking, and Dominate Your Life

By: cheekie

cheekie — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 20:42:54 +0000

Oh Honey, you have left us hanging!!! what? what did he say??? lol.
Ah never mind.

Holly, I have to add that I think that anyone who has 1-4 at 3 months is well well ahead too. You are just starting to really loosen up at that point, so don’t worry too much and just be yourself, goofiness included. Maybe it’s because I am such a clown, but that is usually one of the first things I let show…

And if you are in your 20’s or early 30’s and have this stuff sussed out already? Good for you. I have to say there are so many guys (and girls) wandering around out there at the age of 40 who still don’t know their arse from their elbow…not me of course. I’m soooo together (ahem)

By: Honey

Honey — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 20:07:32 +0000

Holly, I agree that’s kind of a rough one, especially for someone who is goofy and who’s had that kind of dynamic in past relationships. However, I’d say that if you’ve got #1-4 then you’re ahead of the game.

And honestly, three months isn’t that long–IMO, there’s plenty of time for you guys to open up and share that kind of stuff with each other. Maybe he’s never had that in a relationship before, either, and thinks that it might conflict with his confident, self-assured persona. Or maybe he’s waiting to be sure about you guys before he shares things that are potentially embarrassing

You could pave the way by beginning to share those things about yourself with him and see if he reciprocates. No need for overkill or major confessions–just some lighthearted, silly things prefaced with “this isn’t stuff I usually tell other people.” Before you know it you’re in a comfort zone. Just the other day I asked my boyfriend what he did with the cum when he masturbated in high school. You’d never believe what he said!

By: Blogger Roundtable « Just Living The Dream

Blogger Roundtable « Just Living The Dream — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 17:39:36 +0000

[...] Honey’s got some great stuff that is applicable for both men and women here. [...]

By: holly

holly — Wed, 05 Mar 2008 14:40:41 +0000

Wow. You just made me realize what the guy I've been seeing for the past three months is missing - #5. I'm not sure before him I'd dated anyone who had any of them except #5. The qualities of 1-4 were so unexpected and, yes, hot, that I thought I'd struck the jackpot. Missing #5 is tough though. And a major bummer for someone as goofy as I am. holly's last blog post..On Traveling Well