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		<title>By: Simon</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/weekend-beach-sextacular/comment-page-1#comment-17343</link>
		<dc:creator>Simon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2009 18:12:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good work, here Lance. I&#039;m talking about the writing, not the sex....although I can&#039;t say that it doesn&#039;t sound like a great time had by all. 

I know it&#039;s been a long time but do you still see Gina?? I have often found that LDFB&#039;s go away (or are harder to contact without awkwardness) the longer you stay away from them.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;Simon&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://simonandcole.com/2009/04/26/attraction-rejection-and-a-shotgun-by-simon/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Attraction, Rejection, And A Shotgun by Simon&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good work, here Lance. I&#8217;m talking about the writing, not the sex&#8230;.although I can&#8217;t say that it doesn&#8217;t sound like a great time had by all. </p>
<p>I know it&#8217;s been a long time but do you still see Gina?? I have often found that LDFB&#8217;s go away (or are harder to contact without awkwardness) the longer you stay away from them.</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>Simon&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://simonandcole.com/2009/04/26/attraction-rejection-and-a-shotgun-by-simon/" rel="nofollow">Attraction, Rejection, And A Shotgun by Simon</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Nymph</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nymph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 21:29:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a 22 year old women and I feel the same way about fucking.  I&#039;m happy in my relationship and get plenty of sex, but if a man or women comes by that I find attractive, I want to have sex with them.  Also, I do find that the more sex I  have the more I want it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a 22 year old women and I feel the same way about fucking.  I&#8217;m happy in my relationship and get plenty of sex, but if a man or women comes by that I find attractive, I want to have sex with them.  Also, I do find that the more sex I  have the more I want it.</p>
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		<title>By: The Blue Fox</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Blue Fox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 18:32:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;&quot;Pretty fucked up, eh?&lt;/i&gt;

As for the last, I am pretty sure you are wrong. 
My experience has left no doubt in my mind that both men and women are wired to pair bond and both men and women are wired to cheat.  I get hit on by married women all the time.  Ironically, I seem to have a great deal more success with married women than single.  You would not believe it.  The most innocent looking wives, who spend half the time talking about her families, will offer to take me out to drinks or to fool around within hours of meeting me.  Once, a very innocent looking mother chatted me up for a couple of hours and then offered me a &quot;sleepover.&quot;  When I declined, I noticed her leaving with another man an hour later.  My attitude and mannerisms appear to be just perfect to tempt married women.  The funny thing is that I will not reciprocate unless I know know the woman&#039;s husband cheated or she has already cheated.  I don&#039;t want being a family wrecker on my conscious.  So I turn down a lot of sex offers from attractive women because most of them I barely know well enough to have any idea about their situation.

Anyway, we all want to pair bond, but it is a rare person who does not want to cheat when the opportunity is right.

Sure, there are huge differences in the way we behave and show ourselves.  Lets be honest, women are much better at showing you what they want you to see than men.  They want you to think they are that way for a variety of reasons, one of which is that they hare hard wired to appear to be so.  After all, male jealousy is an ugly and sometimes violent thing.   For most ladies, there is an element of fear in dating that is not present for most men.  (Not that men don&#039;t fear dating, but our fears are more of rejection rather than of the relationship dynamics.  In addition, men really want to believe that our ladies don&#039;t want anybody else.  It makes us feel secure and happy.  So we tend to overlook subtle indications otherwise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>&#8220;Pretty fucked up, eh?</i></p>
<p>As for the last, I am pretty sure you are wrong.<br />
My experience has left no doubt in my mind that both men and women are wired to pair bond and both men and women are wired to cheat.  I get hit on by married women all the time.  Ironically, I seem to have a great deal more success with married women than single.  You would not believe it.  The most innocent looking wives, who spend half the time talking about her families, will offer to take me out to drinks or to fool around within hours of meeting me.  Once, a very innocent looking mother chatted me up for a couple of hours and then offered me a &#8220;sleepover.&#8221;  When I declined, I noticed her leaving with another man an hour later.  My attitude and mannerisms appear to be just perfect to tempt married women.  The funny thing is that I will not reciprocate unless I know know the woman&#8217;s husband cheated or she has already cheated.  I don&#8217;t want being a family wrecker on my conscious.  So I turn down a lot of sex offers from attractive women because most of them I barely know well enough to have any idea about their situation.</p>
<p>Anyway, we all want to pair bond, but it is a rare person who does not want to cheat when the opportunity is right.</p>
<p>Sure, there are huge differences in the way we behave and show ourselves.  Lets be honest, women are much better at showing you what they want you to see than men.  They want you to think they are that way for a variety of reasons, one of which is that they hare hard wired to appear to be so.  After all, male jealousy is an ugly and sometimes violent thing.   For most ladies, there is an element of fear in dating that is not present for most men.  (Not that men don&#8217;t fear dating, but our fears are more of rejection rather than of the relationship dynamics.  In addition, men really want to believe that our ladies don&#8217;t want anybody else.  It makes us feel secure and happy.  So we tend to overlook subtle indications otherwise.</p>
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		<title>By: dadshouse</title>
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		<dc:creator>dadshouse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 18:26:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had a FB who loved the female body and went to strip bars all the time. (I don&#039;t hit strip bars anymore, so she went with buddies of hers). But when I queried her about a threesome, she was not into it at all. She just likes to look and admire the feminine form. At least that&#039;s what she said - who knows, maybe she was doing threesomes with her buddy who took her to strip bars!

dadshouses last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/08/19/romantic-conversation-starters-for-runners/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Romantic Conversation Starters for Runners&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had a FB who loved the female body and went to strip bars all the time. (I don&#8217;t hit strip bars anymore, so she went with buddies of hers). But when I queried her about a threesome, she was not into it at all. She just likes to look and admire the feminine form. At least that&#8217;s what she said &#8211; who knows, maybe she was doing threesomes with her buddy who took her to strip bars!</p>
<p>dadshouses last blog post..<a href="http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/08/19/romantic-conversation-starters-for-runners/" rel="nofollow">Romantic Conversation Starters for Runners</a></p>
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		<title>By: Lance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 00:59:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually asked her if she was into chicks, thinking maybe we could move in that direction, but it was not too be. She wasn&#039;t disgusted by the idea nor my interest in it though. 

Monkey Sex = Crazyass, dirty sex where pretty much anything happens. Think two rabid monkeys copulating wildly in the forest.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually asked her if she was into chicks, thinking maybe we could move in that direction, but it was not too be. She wasn&#8217;t disgusted by the idea nor my interest in it though. </p>
<p>Monkey Sex = Crazyass, dirty sex where pretty much anything happens. Think two rabid monkeys copulating wildly in the forest.</p>
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		<title>By: Loving Annie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Loving Annie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 23:51:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very f****d up.... sigh.

Loving Annies last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://lovingforyourheart.blogspot.com/2008/08/good-weekend-family-style.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Good Weekend, Family Style :)&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very f****d up&#8230;. sigh.</p>
<p>Loving Annies last blog post..<a href="http://lovingforyourheart.blogspot.com/2008/08/good-weekend-family-style.html" rel="nofollow">A Good Weekend, Family Style <img src='http://honeyandlance.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </a></p>
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		<title>By: The Dateable Dork</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Dateable Dork</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 21:54:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, if Lance&#039;s descriptions of past crazy monkey sex are any indication, he was having some pretty fucking amazing sex this weekend.  Go Lance!  (I want details!!!)

So glad you had a good time this weekend - it really does sound like the perfect situation for both you and her.  No need to talk about the &quot;relationship&quot; or your dating lives outside of your LDFB thing - it just doesn&#039;t matter in the context of what you have going on with her.  Like Eathan, I&#039;m uber-jealous of all the dirty sex but glad to hear that at least one of us is getting down and dirty these days!  Rock on!

The Dateable Dorks last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://thedateabledork.typepad.com/thedateabledork/2008/08/primping-and-priming-for-my-fabulous-re-entry.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Primping and priming for my fabulous re-entry&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, if Lance&#8217;s descriptions of past crazy monkey sex are any indication, he was having some pretty fucking amazing sex this weekend.  Go Lance!  (I want details!!!)</p>
<p>So glad you had a good time this weekend &#8211; it really does sound like the perfect situation for both you and her.  No need to talk about the &#8220;relationship&#8221; or your dating lives outside of your LDFB thing &#8211; it just doesn&#8217;t matter in the context of what you have going on with her.  Like Eathan, I&#8217;m uber-jealous of all the dirty sex but glad to hear that at least one of us is getting down and dirty these days!  Rock on!</p>
<p>The Dateable Dorks last blog post..<a href="http://thedateabledork.typepad.com/thedateabledork/2008/08/primping-and-priming-for-my-fabulous-re-entry.html" rel="nofollow">Primping and priming for my fabulous re-entry</a></p>
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		<title>By: Danimal's Wife</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danimal's Wife</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 21:49:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love how candidly you communicate what I think really is normal, but most guys won&#039;t admit. Kudos...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love how candidly you communicate what I think really is normal, but most guys won&#8217;t admit. Kudos&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Missy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Missy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 19:30:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My mind immediately jumped to conclusions when I saw &quot;What&#039;s up with Gina and Checking out other chicks.&quot;  I thought....Gina&#039;s bi...and she was checking out the other chicks WITH you!    WILD SEX HERE WE COME!



Sounds like you had a great weekend. I have always been known to pick up strangers and hang out and add to the fun.  What is Monkey Sex?  I want some...I think!  *wink*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mind immediately jumped to conclusions when I saw &#8220;What&#8217;s up with Gina and Checking out other chicks.&#8221;  I thought&#8230;.Gina&#8217;s bi&#8230;and she was checking out the other chicks WITH you!    WILD SEX HERE WE COME!</p>
<p>Sounds like you had a great weekend. I have always been known to pick up strangers and hang out and add to the fun.  What is Monkey Sex?  I want some&#8230;I think!  *wink*</p>
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		<title>By: Lance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 18:17:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t have any problems controlling those urges. The simple threat of a STD would quash it, and so would a hot chick who reveals she has a crappy personality. The urges exist though, and I wouldn&#039;t &lt;i&gt;mind&lt;/i&gt; donging half the hot chicks who walk by. I just chose not to for whatever reason that pops into my head.

Lances last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://honeyandlance.com/weekend-beach-sextacular&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Weekend Beach Sextacular&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t have any problems controlling those urges. The simple threat of a STD would quash it, and so would a hot chick who reveals she has a crappy personality. The urges exist though, and I wouldn&#8217;t <i>mind</i> donging half the hot chicks who walk by. I just chose not to for whatever reason that pops into my head.</p>
<p>Lances last blog post..<a href="http://honeyandlance.com/weekend-beach-sextacular" rel="nofollow">Weekend Beach Sextacular</a></p>
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