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		<title>By: Love Poems &#38; Love Quotes</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions/comment-page-1#comment-23175</link>
		<dc:creator>Love Poems &#38; Love Quotes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Jun 2009 14:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think bordem is in pretty much all our lives until the next big thing comes around to excite us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think bordem is in pretty much all our lives until the next big thing comes around to excite us.</p>
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		<title>By: Honey</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions/comment-page-1#comment-19329</link>
		<dc:creator>Honey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 20:43:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>He played football, track, and cross-country in high school and did intramural football and hockey in college...I think that he might go the paintball route as far as &quot;sports&quot; - we have a guy friend who plays regularly and always wants people to go with him.  Good suggestion!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>He played football, track, and cross-country in high school and did intramural football and hockey in college&#8230;I think that he might go the paintball route as far as &#8220;sports&#8221; &#8211; we have a guy friend who plays regularly and always wants people to go with him.  Good suggestion!</p>
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		<title>By: Single Mom Seeking</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions/comment-page-1#comment-19316</link>
		<dc:creator>Single Mom Seeking</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 18:27:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The board games cracked me up, too!

He really is blessed with such a thoughtful, caring woman. I look forward to hearing the update. 

As Lance implied, I also wondered if he plays sports. Such a great stress-reliever... for women, too.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;Single Mom Seeking&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/12/safe-sex/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Safe sex&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The board games cracked me up, too!</p>
<p>He really is blessed with such a thoughtful, caring woman. I look forward to hearing the update. </p>
<p>As Lance implied, I also wondered if he plays sports. Such a great stress-reliever&#8230; for women, too.</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>Single Mom Seeking&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/12/safe-sex/" rel="nofollow">Safe sex</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Janak</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions/comment-page-1#comment-19169</link>
		<dc:creator>Janak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 22:08:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The older I get, the more I realize that if one has any kind of conscience at all, happiness is absurdly hard work. And worse, work of a constant and ongoing nature toward a nebulous goal.

It&#039;s far easier to be vaguely unfulfilled and dissatisfied, and I&#039;m tempted to believe that the effort and time one saves by accepting this state is worth its weight in suffering, due to the fact of what it allows one to accomplish.

Of course having no conscience would be great, but if you already have one then it&#039;s hard work to get rid of, which lands you back in the same situation you&#039;re trying to avoid.

There&#039;s a point in there somewhere, longing to be made. Time for another coffee.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;Janak&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/casualencounters/SkqR/~3/UFwQ0U8ZV5o/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Weekly Roundup - Top 10 Casual Sex Links from Around the Web&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The older I get, the more I realize that if one has any kind of conscience at all, happiness is absurdly hard work. And worse, work of a constant and ongoing nature toward a nebulous goal.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s far easier to be vaguely unfulfilled and dissatisfied, and I&#8217;m tempted to believe that the effort and time one saves by accepting this state is worth its weight in suffering, due to the fact of what it allows one to accomplish.</p>
<p>Of course having no conscience would be great, but if you already have one then it&#8217;s hard work to get rid of, which lands you back in the same situation you&#8217;re trying to avoid.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s a point in there somewhere, longing to be made. Time for another coffee.</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>Janak&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/casualencounters/SkqR/~3/UFwQ0U8ZV5o/" rel="nofollow">Weekly Roundup &#8211; Top 10 Casual Sex Links from Around the Web</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: dadshouse</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions/comment-page-1#comment-19156</link>
		<dc:creator>dadshouse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 19:41:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I went through a time where I felt a restless urge to do something more exciting. The problem is, everytime you up the ante or shake up the routine, you fall back into feeling unfulfilled. And that&#039;s the key - fulfillment. 

Lance touched on this by suggesting a personal project, or doing something for personal development. That will certainly help. 

The Dalai Lama suggests that the purpose of life is to be happy, and the way to happiness is by giving love through compassion. That doesn&#039;t sound too exciting, but it&#039;s actually quite fulfilling.

Oh, and have lots of spontaneous sex in unusual places.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;dadshouse&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://dadshouseblog.com/2009/05/11/single-dad-fireworks-on-mothers-day/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Single Dad Fireworks on Mother’s Day&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went through a time where I felt a restless urge to do something more exciting. The problem is, everytime you up the ante or shake up the routine, you fall back into feeling unfulfilled. And that&#8217;s the key &#8211; fulfillment. </p>
<p>Lance touched on this by suggesting a personal project, or doing something for personal development. That will certainly help. </p>
<p>The Dalai Lama suggests that the purpose of life is to be happy, and the way to happiness is by giving love through compassion. That doesn&#8217;t sound too exciting, but it&#8217;s actually quite fulfilling.</p>
<p>Oh, and have lots of spontaneous sex in unusual places.</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>dadshouse&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://dadshouseblog.com/2009/05/11/single-dad-fireworks-on-mothers-day/" rel="nofollow">Single Dad Fireworks on Mother’s Day</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Janak</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions/comment-page-1#comment-19074</link>
		<dc:creator>Janak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 23:22:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG poker is the bomb. WHY DID I STOP PLAYING POKER. *flees screaming from house*

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;Janak&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/casualencounters/SkqR/~3/UFwQ0U8ZV5o/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Weekly Roundup - Top 10 Casual Sex Links from Around the Web&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG poker is the bomb. WHY DID I STOP PLAYING POKER. *flees screaming from house*</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>Janak&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/casualencounters/SkqR/~3/UFwQ0U8ZV5o/" rel="nofollow">Weekly Roundup &#8211; Top 10 Casual Sex Links from Around the Web</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Honey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Honey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 19:44:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s a fantastic idea, Tina T!  It&#039;ll probably have to wait now (we finally hit the 100s last week and will probably not dip below them until October at least) but maybe we can get up to Prescott for some hiking on a day or weekend trip...it&#039;s MUCH cooler there!

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;Honey&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Vague Dissatisfactions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a fantastic idea, Tina T!  It&#8217;ll probably have to wait now (we finally hit the 100s last week and will probably not dip below them until October at least) but maybe we can get up to Prescott for some hiking on a day or weekend trip&#8230;it&#8217;s MUCH cooler there!</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>Honey&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions" rel="nofollow">Vague Dissatisfactions</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Tina T</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 03:33:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My favorite dates with my husband are active outdoor activities like hiking, mountain biking and whitewater rafting.  They&#039;re a great way to bond and have fun and even if you go to the exact same place twice it&#039;s always different.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tina T&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/05/08/couples-that-never-say-i-do/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Couples That Never Say “I Do”&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My favorite dates with my husband are active outdoor activities like hiking, mountain biking and whitewater rafting.  They&#8217;re a great way to bond and have fun and even if you go to the exact same place twice it&#8217;s always different.</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>Tina T&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://luvemorleavem.com/blog/2009/05/08/couples-that-never-say-i-do/" rel="nofollow">Couples That Never Say “I Do”</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: demeter's house</title>
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		<dc:creator>demeter's house</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 21:05:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re so right--he used to get pissed when I&#039;d stay up late drinking beer, playing poker with my siblings! Your BF is a thousand times cooler (and saner).

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;demeter&#039;s house&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://demetershouse.wordpress.com/2009/05/06/the-academy-kinda-like-junior-high-but-with-bigger-books/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Academy: Kinda Like Junior High but with Bigger Books&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re so right&#8211;he used to get pissed when I&#8217;d stay up late drinking beer, playing poker with my siblings! Your BF is a thousand times cooler (and saner).</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>demeter&#8217;s house&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://demetershouse.wordpress.com/2009/05/06/the-academy-kinda-like-junior-high-but-with-bigger-books/" rel="nofollow">The Academy: Kinda Like Junior High but with Bigger Books</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Honey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Honey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 18:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Haha!  He did follow that up with, &quot;or play poker,&quot; which I can&#039;t imagine your partner saying :-)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;Honey&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Vague Dissatisfactions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Haha!  He did follow that up with, &#8220;or play poker,&#8221; which I can&#8217;t imagine your partner saying <img src='http://honeyandlance.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>Honey&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://honeyandlance.com/vague-dissatisfactions" rel="nofollow">Vague Dissatisfactions</a></em></abbr></p>
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