Comments on: Thought Leader Interview Series: David Wygant

By: Pua Lingo

Pua Lingo — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 07:44:57 +0000

I love David Wygant's stuff. I actually had the opportunity to listen to him speak in SF, and it was very inspiring. Pua Lingo´s last blog post...Nice Guy

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 20:09:42 +0000

I think he’s being too judgmental about pick-up. When you look at pickup through the lens of Mystery on that VH-1 show, then yeah, it’s out of whack. But that’s TV! It’s entertainment.

Deep down, I think there are core principles in pick-up that really do work. And they don’t conflict with Wygand’s view (that I share) that you should love yourself first and be confident when you approach women.

The point Wygand perhaps misses is that some people lack that confidence – maybe because they were torn apart by a divorce. And so, like Dumbo the elephant with his feather, sometimes you need a confidence boosting mental placebo to get you going through the dating motions again.

I’m not saying that’s the case for all PUA’s – I’m saying don’t discount pickup entirely.

By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 03:49:28 +0000

Hahaha! This interview is KILLER. The PUA paragraph perfectly articulates all my thoughts about pick-up, and I really wish I could give David Wygant a hug right now.

David – if you are in New York, please schedule a visit so I can hug you, ok? Thank you for saying what many people don’t have the balls to say. There’s nothing more attractive than a man with BALLS.

Lance – thanks for putting this out there. Love it, love it, love it.

By: single mom seeking

single mom seeking — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 05:42:12 +0000

Wow, great interview Lance! Wygant really spoke his mind.

I really appreciate this: “If you don’t love yourself you will never get into a healthy relationship, ever. Process yourself, figure yourself out, take the time to learn yourself and process each relationship.”

I just put myself back online after almost two years and Wygant’s perception is so TRUE!

“Men have actually become more passive. They just text and they want a women who texts back.”

By: The Virgin

The Virgin — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 04:28:38 +0000

I’ve been making a New Year’s resolution to toss/delete all my “material” because for reasons too deep to go into, I think it’s harmed me more than helped. That is, tossed almost everything but a select few who I think are more realistic, and Wygant is one of those who stays on my RSS reader. Great blog and I do agree a lot with what he says.