In my life, I’ve noticed that my “favorite foods” are sort of temporary. There will be something that I absolutely crave and feel that I could eat at every meal (and almost do, for awhile) to the exclusion of almost anything else. I will be absolutely convinced that I could eat it every day for the rest of my life and never get sick of it. (Usually these items are from Trader Joe’s, for those of you lucky enough to have one in your town…yum…).
I have found that the BF and I also do this with our sex life (though I usually do get sick of the food at some point and never want to eat it again…that has never happened with sex!). We will find something that we haven’t done in awhile, or haven’t done before, and it will become the centerpiece of our sex life for a month or two before we become obsessed with something else and “retire” our obsession (though we still obviously bring it out to play every once in a while).
Right now our obsession is taking photos of ourselves having sex. We have two digital cameras, which is a must because then one is for home and the other for all other occasions where someone else might be holding your camera. Our “home” camera stays by the bed and, whenever we start to get it on, one or the other of us will grab the camera and start snapping away. There’s a tacit understanding that whenever one person aims the camera at a particular spot, we pause and hold as still as possible so as to get the best shot.
This new trend has several benefits: (1) we switch positions more than perhaps we otherwise would, in order to get a wide variety of shots, (2) there is a certain amount of teasing (and, therefore, sexual tension) during the moments we hold still, especially since the other person never knows it’s coming, and (3) the obvious masturbation fodder. I was scrolling through the shots one day while he was downstairs and it turned out that one morning when I got up before he did, he’d woken up hard and taken a few shots just of that. Heaven.
Other shots have included me going down on him (quite a few of these), him going down on me (just one so far, as I tend to get a little distracted), a bunch of actual sex shots, one of my lady parts freshly shaven and clean, one of my lady parts all sex-slippery and covered on cum (he pulled out and came right at the entrance to my vagina), as well as other assorted shots. What a fun game! We are still trying to figure out where to put the camera and take some video, since it does that, too. Tough to say what the best angle would be, and we don’t want the camera doing any crazy Blair Witch-style cinematography. Sex shouldn’t be scary!
We still haven’t quite figured out how the pictures will be stored to ensure each of our privacy if we ever break up. Not that, with sex like this, that seems likely.
Have you ever done this? What have your experiences been like?