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The Weekly: Thanksgiving Edition

(God bless us, every single one of us.) Haven’t done a Weekly in a while because I’ve been f**king busy, so I thought I’d jump right back into it with a Thanksgiving edition. This is also an update on Big Daddy Lance in case you were wondering what shenanigans I’ve been getting into. Continued addthis_url [...]

Man Gets Dumped For Being Excellent Boyfriend

Atlanta, GA - An Atlanta man was dumped on Monday for trying to build a strong emotional connection and having deep intimacy with his girlfriend. Dennis Dickerson, age 29, had been going steady with Roswell resident Amanda Knupfel for two years. “It really took me by surprise,” said Dickerson, “I thought we had a really awesome [...]

Say Yes! To Friends With Benefits

I recently read an article arguing against friends with benefits, written by Simcha Whitehill at The Frisky. As everyone who reads H&L regularly knows, I’m pro FWB and pro fuck buddy, and I’m also con bad dating advice. Of course, her article is her opinion and if FWB’s don’t work for her, that’s cool too. [...]

Can You Teach An Old Dog New Tricks?

YouTube Preview Image I really dug Honey’s post, When is Enough, Enough, because she touched on a number of points that are relevant to my life. Really, they’re relevant to all daters and LTR folks out there. Here are three points: Continued addthis_url = 'http%3A%2F%2Fhoneyandlance.com%2Fcan-you-teach-an-old-dog-new-tricks'; addthis_title = 'Can+You+Teach+An+Old+Dog+New+Tricks%3F'; addthis_pub [...]

Lance’s Take: Key To Successful Relationships

  “How do you define successful relationships, and what does it take to achieve that success?” I want to start off by answering the second part of the question first. In my opinion, the very best way to achieve relationship success is with experience. Let me say that again, but this time in bold: EXPERIENCE Continued addthis_url [...]