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Defining Casual Sex

So recently in the comments on his blog, Hammer accused me of having something against casual sex, and this got me to thinking.  I mean, I’ve certainly had plenty of it.  I’ve never kept a list of previous partners because I think that’s creepy (like, psycho creepy, ewwwww), but suffice it to say we’re not talking single digits here (though not triple digits, either).  So why do his posts engender an almost physical reaction of disgust, depression, and pity in me?

Well I guess in order to try and figure that out, we’re going to have to define casual sex.  Continued

Into-Me-See: A Couple’s Guide to Intimacy

Everyone catch that pop culture reference from the greatest tv show of all time?  SATC, bitchez!

All right then, moving on.  I was intrigued by Lance’s treatment of intimacy, what it means, why we crave it, and whether it is necessary.  This reminded me not only of the title of the fake book from Sex and the City when Samantha and her boyfriend go to couple’s counseling because he has a small dick, but also of the moment in that show where Miranda is describing to Carrie how her favorite thing to do on a Saturday night is her boyfriend’s laundry.  Then, in the next episode, their relationship is in jeopardy and when Carrie says, Continued