By Lance on Aug 15, 2011 in Sex | comments(12)
I found Juliet Jeske’s post, Dating After Divorce In a City of Sluts, via the Evan Marc Katz blog. Jeske is a divorced comedian and artist in New York City. She’s starting over in the NYC dating scene and frustrated with how fast things move in the dating world. Her complaint is a common one, that sex happens too fast and guys want to get laid on the first date.
I’m a big believer in fast sex, before any kind of gf-bf relationshop has been established. There are good reasons for this, which I will address in a followup post. For now, let’s go with the assumption that guys want to have sex early and women get pissed when we do. What should Jeske do?
By Lance on May 12, 2011 in Featured, Game | comments(53)
This is my second post on gaming Craigslist dating. The first post is where I impersonated a chick on craigslist casual encounters.
There are a lot of spammers and scammers working the W4M and Casual Encounters sections of Craigslist. I’ve been replying to ads in these sections for a couple of weeks now and I can confirm that it’s majorly shady. I want to share what I’ve found so you can avoid getting scammed.
By Lance on Feb 15, 2011 in Game | comments(0)
One of my favorite Uber-PUAs, Jon Sinn, posted a great tip for creating sexual attraction and moving an interaction into a sexual territory. It’s a simple conversational ladder with a focus on establishing a faux-relationship with a date (or target) and it accomplishes two goals:
- Let’s her know that you’re hitting on her in fun way, without being creepy or awkward about it.
- Gets her to passively agree to participate in the seduction.
He demonstrates the convo ladder in a short video, which for some reason I can’t figure out how to embed on this page, and also links the PDF transcript. Since I can’t embed the video, here’s a picture of a hot chick instead:
By Lance on Apr 10, 2010 in Field Report, Game | comments(7)
You’re going to love this. I had a really wacky night of dates recently that completely went off the rails. Here’s the setup: I had been talking with this hot chick on Facebook that I went out with a few times last year…I blogged about it in my Keeping It Real post. I hadn’t seen nor talked to her since that date until recently when I ran into her while running. From there, we chitchatted over FB and I heated things up to the point where she agreed to meet for drinks and catch up. This chick was my type, an athlete, blonde, a little crazy, etc etc.
By Lance on Apr 4, 2010 in Dating, Featured, Game | comments(14)
There were some good comments on my post When I Act Dumb Chicks Want To Sleep With Me More, so I thought I’d write a followup and dive into how acting dumb makes you more attractive.
When I said I acted dumb what I meant was I act tactically dumb, that is, I might purposefully act clueless, shallow, jackassey, or not have an opinion on something in order to generate attraction. At first blush this might be perceived as being dumb, but if you unpack it this is what you get:
* I’ll act clueless about a subject in order to draw out conversation or pump up her enthusiasm about something. Honey mentioned this tactic in her comment. An example might be acting clueless about a genre of music so that she’ll get fired up about explaining it to me, even though I know tons of stuff about that genre. Everyone I know does this, knowingly or unknowingly.
By Lance on Mar 30, 2010 in Featured, Field Report, Game, Sex | comments(11)
I picked up this mediocre looking chick at a bar recently (pic on the left is NOT her). I haven’t done bar pickups in months because I have a new girlfriend, but I was with my wing Lilly and we both needed the practice so there we were.
My opening line to the set: “You two look interesting.” Easy hook from there. I had a phone number and an invite to tour her facility (she works in an art space) within 15 minutes.
I have since met up with this chick, who I’ll call Anna, three times since the PU. The first time we had lunch and that was super duper boring. She talked a mile-a-minute and I couldn’t get a word in edge-wise, which combined with the setting meant I couldn’t generate any attraction. I dipped out of lunch quickly and figured I’d never see the chick again.
The second time I engineered a meetup that same night at a bar. She left her dinner party from across town and met me. We shot pool, danced a little, and had a pretty good time. Minimal talking. We made out at the bar and I took her to my house. We made out on my couch for about an hour. She was a lousy kisser. Because of this, I opted not to push for the lay and I sent her packing at 4:00 am. Plus, she talked too much.