By Lance on Aug 26, 2008 in Field Report | comments(8)
(One of many highlights of the Mansformation Weekend)
In case you didn’t know, and there’s no way you could have because I didn’t announce it, I did an extended weekend in the Dominican Republic as an attendee of TSBMag’s Mansformation Retreat. TSBMag maintains an awesome men’s resource website: http://www.tsbmag.com. I want to give TSBMag and the hosts, Bobby Rio and Mike Stoute, some love before throwing out the lay reports and insights later in the week. Continued
By Lance on May 29, 2008 in Dating, Featured | comments(12)
Okay dudes, I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the difference between good dates and bad dates. A lot of it comes down to having good conversational skills…all the advice out there says that exchanging information and interviewing each other is LAME, which is correct. “What’s your job? Where are you from? What’s your favorite color? What color are you panties?” Next! You want to find ways to connect with a person on a deeper level.
I’m a pretty kickass conversationalist–yeah, I said it–so I sat down and analyzed what I did. It boils down to being able to articulate well, developing multiple threads, and having great content (it’s kind of like blogging actually). I’m assuming you’re a good speaker and can maintain multiple threads, so what I want to do is analyze the content side of the equation. In my mind, having good content the key to excellent conversation. Basically, you want to have material that gets both parties engaged.
Here are 9 ways to pump up the content of your conversations:
By Lance on Mar 26, 2008 in Field Report | comments(22)
I have a fuck buddy. Just thought I’d get personal for a couple of posts. I picked her up at a bar a couple of months ago. I know what you’re thinking…Lance picked up a skeezy ho, screwed her six ways till Sunday, and is jerking her around. Um, no. I have to say, she’s a cool chick and I’ve developed the relationship into a really nice little friends-with-benefits situation. Here’s what I did. This is part 1 where I describe the meet and pickup. Here’s part 2 and part 3.
Also, see this related post on how to set up a long distance fuck buddy.