All Posts Tagged With: "casual"

So recently in the comments on his blog, Hammer accused me of having something against casual sex, and this got me to thinking.  I mean, I’ve certainly had plenty of it.  I’ve never kept a list of previous partners because I think that’s creepy (like, psycho creepy, ewwwww), but suffice it to say we’re not talking single digits here (though not triple digits, either).  So why do his posts engender an almost physical reaction of disgust, depression, and pity in me?

Well I guess in order to try and figure that out, we’re going to have to define casual sex.  Continued

Here’s something kind of fun (or kind of depressing, depending on your view) that the BF and I have been mulling over for the past few months.  It all started because one of the big differences we have in the way that we view the world is that I’m happier now as a “real,” “responsible” adult than I’ve ever been in my life.  He, on the other hand, misses his college days with all his heart and would go back in a second.

Personally, I think it’s kind of sad whenever you look back on your life and want to be in a particular place again.  Looking back and remembering how happy you were is one thing, and looking back and wanting to be there again is another.  But the signs of an adult are plain to see, and here are the Top Ten ways you can tell. Continued