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		<title>By: Killer Ab Workout</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/should-we-teach-our-kids-to-give-good-head/comment-page-1#comment-44901</link>
		<dc:creator>Killer Ab Workout</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 10:46:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ya you need to educate. All these anti sex ed people are stupid. 9/10 kids have premarital sex it is life. Stop ignoring it.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ya you need to educate. All these anti sex ed people are stupid. 9/10 kids have premarital sex it is life. Stop ignoring it.<br />
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		<title>By: Honey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Honey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 18:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s important to question why society has the values it does and to counter-act those values that are not productive as far as making us better people.  Obviously you have to be 
age-appropriate when talking to kids about sex, obviously health/safety should come before discussions of technique, and obviously if your kids are not comfortable having technique-oriented discussions with you then you should respect that and make other resources available.  But I don&#039;t see anything immoral about having those discussions as long as you follow those guidelines.  People always say they want their kids to &quot;have the things they never had,&quot; shouldn&#039;t that include not having years of really bad sex before finally figuring everything out?

Honeys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://honeyandlance.com/how-to-spot-a-fake-matchcom-profile&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to Spot a Fake Match.com Profile&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s important to question why society has the values it does and to counter-act those values that are not productive as far as making us better people.  Obviously you have to be<br />
age-appropriate when talking to kids about sex, obviously health/safety should come before discussions of technique, and obviously if your kids are not comfortable having technique-oriented discussions with you then you should respect that and make other resources available.  But I don&#8217;t see anything immoral about having those discussions as long as you follow those guidelines.  People always say they want their kids to &#8220;have the things they never had,&#8221; shouldn&#8217;t that include not having years of really bad sex before finally figuring everything out?</p>
<p>Honeys last blog post..<a href="http://honeyandlance.com/how-to-spot-a-fake-matchcom-profile" rel="nofollow">How to Spot a Fake Match.com Profile</a></p>
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		<title>By: j</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/should-we-teach-our-kids-to-give-good-head/comment-page-1#comment-1895</link>
		<dc:creator>j</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 23:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>and you wont post it because i am right!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>and you wont post it because i am right!!</p>
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		<title>By: j</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/should-we-teach-our-kids-to-give-good-head/comment-page-1#comment-1894</link>
		<dc:creator>j</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 23:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think you are either an exhibitionist or a creep/perv that parents should watch. this is not the way that parents talk to their kids about sex-parents talk to their kids about sex-but not about how to do it!!your blog is distasteful!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think you are either an exhibitionist or a creep/perv that parents should watch. this is not the way that parents talk to their kids about sex-parents talk to their kids about sex-but not about how to do it!!your blog is distasteful!</p>
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		<title>By: dadshouse</title>
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		<dc:creator>dadshouse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:53:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All right, I put a post up on Dad&#039;s House, and I sent some link love this direction.

dadshouses last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/07/02/how-to-talk-to-your-daughter-about-sex/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How to Talk to Your Daughter About Sex&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All right, I put a post up on Dad&#8217;s House, and I sent some link love this direction.</p>
<p>dadshouses last blog post..<a href="http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/07/02/how-to-talk-to-your-daughter-about-sex/" rel="nofollow">How to Talk to Your Daughter About Sex</a></p>
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		<title>By: How to Talk to Your Daughter About Sex &#171; Dad&#8217;s House</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/should-we-teach-our-kids-to-give-good-head/comment-page-1#comment-1110</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Talk to Your Daughter About Sex &#171; Dad&#8217;s House</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:19:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Holly Hoffman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Holly Hoffman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 16:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, Lance. And no, I wouldn&#039;t want my kids learning it from you. LOL.

My BF and I are very open about our past sexual experiences, and I find that I actually really, really enjoy talking about sex with him. And it usually leads to the actual deed. Ha. Seriously, most of my exes hated to tak about it because it involved me talking about people I&#039;d had sex with previously - which they didn&#039;t like. I guess some guys would rather suffer less-than-phenomenal sex than to hear that their GF used to bonk someone else. It&#039;s not like I was a virgin, but I think some guys still like to think that.

At any rate, my mom explained it all to me very young, but I didn&#039;t get it. I think I was about 11 when I realized with wide eyes that &quot;he stuck it in you?!&quot; LOL.

I learned the most about technique, especially head, from a 70s sex book I found in a BF&#039;s bedroom. It was his parents&#039;, and he&#039;d never read it. The techniques I picked up in there earned rave reviews.

I have one motto when it comes to sex ed - &quot;never stop learning.&quot;

Holly Hoffmans last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.worklovelife.com/2008/06/introducing-new-person-into-your-life.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Introducing a new person into your life&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, Lance. And no, I wouldn&#8217;t want my kids learning it from you. LOL.</p>
<p>My BF and I are very open about our past sexual experiences, and I find that I actually really, really enjoy talking about sex with him. And it usually leads to the actual deed. Ha. Seriously, most of my exes hated to tak about it because it involved me talking about people I&#8217;d had sex with previously &#8211; which they didn&#8217;t like. I guess some guys would rather suffer less-than-phenomenal sex than to hear that their GF used to bonk someone else. It&#8217;s not like I was a virgin, but I think some guys still like to think that.</p>
<p>At any rate, my mom explained it all to me very young, but I didn&#8217;t get it. I think I was about 11 when I realized with wide eyes that &#8220;he stuck it in you?!&#8221; LOL.</p>
<p>I learned the most about technique, especially head, from a 70s sex book I found in a BF&#8217;s bedroom. It was his parents&#8217;, and he&#8217;d never read it. The techniques I picked up in there earned rave reviews.</p>
<p>I have one motto when it comes to sex ed &#8211; &#8220;never stop learning.&#8221;</p>
<p>Holly Hoffmans last blog post..<a href="http://www.worklovelife.com/2008/06/introducing-new-person-into-your-life.html" rel="nofollow">Introducing a new person into your life</a></p>
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		<title>By: Cheekie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheekie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 12:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I learned about sex by accidentally reading a Harold Robbins book when I was about 9 or 10. 
Seriously.

I was the girl in school that everyone came to for advice. Sexually speaking anyway. And the only one who didn&#039;t squirm or even blink when going to buy condoms. Still don&#039;t. Even the economy packs of 24...lol.

I have always been very open and comfortable with sex. 
That being said though, I feel that there is a time and a place for it, and a time and a place to talk about it. 

My parents never really gave me the talk, but, it was something that I just &#039;knew&#039; about. I can&#039;t explain it. Maybe it&#039;s a Scorpio thing.

I have always been as age appropriately honest as I can be with my son, and I know that very soon will come the day when I have to take the initiative and sit him down to talk.

The kids at his school are starting to do the usual kid talk about it. And that is part of the learning process. 
I hope to create an atmosphere of openness, so that when he does have questions he can come to me. 

And I will definitely make him buy his own condoms. I think that is part of being sexually active, you must take responsibility for it without any shame.
In fact, I want him to learn to take pride in it. 
Just like I did.

I probably won&#039;t get into the &#039;technique&#039; talk. I think that is something you learn, by being a honest, open, considerate lover.
That much I will impart.


There isn&#039;t much else a parent can do.
It&#039;s like responsible use of alcohol or anything else. 
It&#039;s about trust and respect and openness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I learned about sex by accidentally reading a Harold Robbins book when I was about 9 or 10.<br />
Seriously.</p>
<p>I was the girl in school that everyone came to for advice. Sexually speaking anyway. And the only one who didn&#8217;t squirm or even blink when going to buy condoms. Still don&#8217;t. Even the economy packs of 24&#8230;lol.</p>
<p>I have always been very open and comfortable with sex.<br />
That being said though, I feel that there is a time and a place for it, and a time and a place to talk about it. </p>
<p>My parents never really gave me the talk, but, it was something that I just &#8216;knew&#8217; about. I can&#8217;t explain it. Maybe it&#8217;s a Scorpio thing.</p>
<p>I have always been as age appropriately honest as I can be with my son, and I know that very soon will come the day when I have to take the initiative and sit him down to talk.</p>
<p>The kids at his school are starting to do the usual kid talk about it. And that is part of the learning process.<br />
I hope to create an atmosphere of openness, so that when he does have questions he can come to me. </p>
<p>And I will definitely make him buy his own condoms. I think that is part of being sexually active, you must take responsibility for it without any shame.<br />
In fact, I want him to learn to take pride in it.<br />
Just like I did.</p>
<p>I probably won&#8217;t get into the &#8216;technique&#8217; talk. I think that is something you learn, by being a honest, open, considerate lover.<br />
That much I will impart.</p>
<p>There isn&#8217;t much else a parent can do.<br />
It&#8217;s like responsible use of alcohol or anything else.<br />
It&#8217;s about trust and respect and openness.</p>
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		<title>By: crow</title>
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		<dc:creator>crow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 02:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Normally I love this blog, but this post pisses me off. Why do men have to dominate, and women have to submit? There are many submissive men, and dominate women. People should find a partner that suits their style, instead of attempting to change to please everybody.

By the way, when I was a little kid I asked where babies come from, and my parents gave me an honest answer. That was it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Normally I love this blog, but this post pisses me off. Why do men have to dominate, and women have to submit? There are many submissive men, and dominate women. People should find a partner that suits their style, instead of attempting to change to please everybody.</p>
<p>By the way, when I was a little kid I asked where babies come from, and my parents gave me an honest answer. That was it.</p>
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		<title>By: crow</title>
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		<dc:creator>crow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 02:43:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Normally I love this blog, but this post pisses me off. Why do men have to dominate and women have to subit? There are many submissive men out there, and dominant woman. People should find a partner who suit their style, instead of attempting to change their style.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Normally I love this blog, but this post pisses me off. Why do men have to dominate and women have to subit? There are many submissive men out there, and dominant woman. People should find a partner who suit their style, instead of attempting to change their style.</p>
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