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		<title>By: Lee D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lee D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 17:41:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The deep spot is the posterior fornix.  The AFE zone is the anterior fornix erogenous zone(A = anterior).  I&#039;m so tired of writers misleading people.

Pressure in the posterior fornix can help to trigger an orgasm, yes.  All orgasms involve the clitoris.  There is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm.  Just because pleasure is felt from pressure on the deep spot, and that pleasure is enhanced by an orgasm, does not make it a supposed vaginal orgasm.  The vaginal orgasm is a myth.  Women that have had their clitorises removed can not have orgasms, while women with tiny or non-existant vaginas can have orgasms.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The deep spot is the posterior fornix.  The AFE zone is the anterior fornix erogenous zone(A = anterior).  I&#8217;m so tired of writers misleading people.</p>
<p>Pressure in the posterior fornix can help to trigger an orgasm, yes.  All orgasms involve the clitoris.  There is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm.  Just because pleasure is felt from pressure on the deep spot, and that pleasure is enhanced by an orgasm, does not make it a supposed vaginal orgasm.  The vaginal orgasm is a myth.  Women that have had their clitorises removed can not have orgasms, while women with tiny or non-existant vaginas can have orgasms.</p>
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		<title>By: Chuck</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/sex-wtf-is-the-deep-spot/comment-page-1#comment-25481</link>
		<dc:creator>Chuck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 08:20:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This spot is absolutely real.

But, here&#039;s the catch.

it only does anything when the other two main spots have gotten enough stimulation.  Simply getting it alone will generally do nothing.

It is responsible for big gushes a lot of the time.

it&#039;s also responsibly for those spectacular simultaneous orgasms when they happen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This spot is absolutely real.</p>
<p>But, here&#8217;s the catch.</p>
<p>it only does anything when the other two main spots have gotten enough stimulation.  Simply getting it alone will generally do nothing.</p>
<p>It is responsible for big gushes a lot of the time.</p>
<p>it&#8217;s also responsibly for those spectacular simultaneous orgasms when they happen.</p>
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		<title>By: Lance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 18:31:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry if we rubbed you the wrong way...pun intended! When it comes to O&#039;s, I always try to rub the right way ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry if we rubbed you the wrong way&#8230;pun intended! When it comes to O&#8217;s, I always try to rub the right way <img src='http://honeyandlance.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: valentine</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/sex-wtf-is-the-deep-spot/comment-page-1#comment-7068</link>
		<dc:creator>valentine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Dec 2008 15:47:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It always rub me the wrong way when guys say what a &quot;real&quot; orgasm is or what a &quot;true&quot; orgasm is.  It&#039;s like they&#039;re telling me what I have isn&#039;t actually an orgasm.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;em&gt;valentine&#180;s last blog post...&lt;a href=&quot;http://leevalentine.blogspot.com/2008/12/meme-ikenai-taiyou.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Meme: Ikenai Taiyou&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It always rub me the wrong way when guys say what a &#8220;real&#8221; orgasm is or what a &#8220;true&#8221; orgasm is.  It&#8217;s like they&#8217;re telling me what I have isn&#8217;t actually an orgasm.</p>
<p><abbr><em></em><em>valentine&#180;s last blog post&#8230;<a href="http://leevalentine.blogspot.com/2008/12/meme-ikenai-taiyou.html" rel="nofollow">Meme: Ikenai Taiyou</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: cheekie</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/sex-wtf-is-the-deep-spot/comment-page-1#comment-855</link>
		<dc:creator>cheekie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2008 16:27:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting article...although  I am pretty damn sure clitoris size has nada to do with it either. That&#039;s like saying only men with big balls can ejaculate. 

We aren&#039;t trick pony&#039;s though...and yes, being well hydrated, before during and after, helps. As does a glass or two of wine. And being highly aroused/wet is probably just a good indicator that you are really horny, which therefore makes you more able. So get really horny girls. lol.

Also, you have to get passed that weird crampy feeling, cause that&#039;s when it&#039;s about to happen. It doesn&#039;t hurt, but you aren&#039;t quite sure wtf is going on. And using your muscles properly, practice a lot. it&#039;s fun.

You apparently cannot physically urinate during sex, or high arousal, according to some articles I have read. So don&#039;t worry about that. It definitely isn&#039;t pee. 
They do believe that it might be the female prostate. Who knows. As usual anything regarding female sexuality is only researched fully when it&#039;s in context of how to improve a man&#039;s. They really haven&#039;t done much investigating. 

Frankly they can research all they want to, I&#039;m just going to enjoy....
:-)

cheekies last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/CheekieBacktalk/~3/304394955/sleep-is-for-suckers.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Sleep is for Suckers&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting article&#8230;although  I am pretty damn sure clitoris size has nada to do with it either. That&#8217;s like saying only men with big balls can ejaculate. </p>
<p>We aren&#8217;t trick pony&#8217;s though&#8230;and yes, being well hydrated, before during and after, helps. As does a glass or two of wine. And being highly aroused/wet is probably just a good indicator that you are really horny, which therefore makes you more able. So get really horny girls. lol.</p>
<p>Also, you have to get passed that weird crampy feeling, cause that&#8217;s when it&#8217;s about to happen. It doesn&#8217;t hurt, but you aren&#8217;t quite sure wtf is going on. And using your muscles properly, practice a lot. it&#8217;s fun.</p>
<p>You apparently cannot physically urinate during sex, or high arousal, according to some articles I have read. So don&#8217;t worry about that. It definitely isn&#8217;t pee.<br />
They do believe that it might be the female prostate. Who knows. As usual anything regarding female sexuality is only researched fully when it&#8217;s in context of how to improve a man&#8217;s. They really haven&#8217;t done much investigating. </p>
<p>Frankly they can research all they want to, I&#8217;m just going to enjoy&#8230;.<br />
 <img src='http://honeyandlance.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>cheekies last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/CheekieBacktalk/~3/304394955/sleep-is-for-suckers.html" rel="nofollow">Sleep is for Suckers</a></p>
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		<title>By: Me Thinks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Me Thinks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 19:13:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I have experienced this. I&#039;m not sure its a &quot;Spot&quot; that is separate from the G-Spot but I certainly have and do squirt. It never happened to me until a couple years ago and now its a somewhat regular thing, both by my partner&#039;s hand (I&#039;m sure this is not possible alone) or during sex. I think it has to be the right stimulation combined with the woman knowing how to squeeze her PC muscles and relax at the same time plus the man figures out what stimulates it. The first few times it freaked me out but now its awesome and it drives my guy completely wild. Crazy stuff, its a gush and is definitely NOT pee, I have completely soaked the bed, couch, carseat... I also wonder if being well-hydrated and typically very wet makes a difference.

This link was on The Girl&#039;s website a while ago, definitely I believe these researches - some women are NOT capable of vaginal orgasms because they may not in fact have a G-Spot. It explains a lot (Honey, read this. I&#039;m interested in what you think):

http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2008/feb/21/medicalresearch.sciencenews</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I have experienced this. I&#8217;m not sure its a &#8220;Spot&#8221; that is separate from the G-Spot but I certainly have and do squirt. It never happened to me until a couple years ago and now its a somewhat regular thing, both by my partner&#8217;s hand (I&#8217;m sure this is not possible alone) or during sex. I think it has to be the right stimulation combined with the woman knowing how to squeeze her PC muscles and relax at the same time plus the man figures out what stimulates it. The first few times it freaked me out but now its awesome and it drives my guy completely wild. Crazy stuff, its a gush and is definitely NOT pee, I have completely soaked the bed, couch, carseat&#8230; I also wonder if being well-hydrated and typically very wet makes a difference.</p>
<p>This link was on The Girl&#8217;s website a while ago, definitely I believe these researches &#8211; some women are NOT capable of vaginal orgasms because they may not in fact have a G-Spot. It explains a lot (Honey, read this. I&#8217;m interested in what you think):</p>
<p><a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2008/feb/21/medicalresearch.sciencenews" rel="nofollow">http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2008/feb/21/medicalresearch.sciencenews</a></p>
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		<title>By: evilwoobie</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/sex-wtf-is-the-deep-spot/comment-page-1#comment-841</link>
		<dc:creator>evilwoobie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 04:36:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I experience the deep spot orgasm as you call it more with a vib than with my partner. I think it&#039;s because with the vib, a more sustained pressure is present, as I dont have to move it much to feel sensation (it IS vibrating). So i can keep it deep with minimum in out movement. While with a partner, he usually takes it out halfway then puts it back in, not much sustained pressure there.  

Honey is right, the 1/3 outer part of the vagina is the ticklish spot, and orgasms arising from this region are always pleasurable, in that the woman anticipates it (&quot;yess yess&quot;). With the deep spot orgasm, a woman could panic if she feels it for the first time as the sensation translates first as pain (though it&#039;s not EXACTLY painful... more of a weird sensation between pain and pleasure that doesn&#039;t have a name yet).

If she bears with the feeling of perceived pain, however, and keep at it for a little longer, the resulting orgasm is more profound than the superficial type. Like you&#039;re dying/swooning, but with no control and no idea how to stop it. I usually yell NO instead of YES with this one because that weird pain-pleasure feeling as orgasm approaches through Deep Spot sensitization could make any first timer panic (i know i did). It almost always resulted in a few tears, .. in fact, i call it &quot;emotional orgasm&quot; (EO). Or, &quot;overwhelmed with love for you, sweetheart&quot;... :D

evilwoobies last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://evilwoobie.com/2008/06/04/wicked-love-messages-from-the-cosmic-universe/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Wicked Wedding Wishes from the Cosmic Universe&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I experience the deep spot orgasm as you call it more with a vib than with my partner. I think it&#8217;s because with the vib, a more sustained pressure is present, as I dont have to move it much to feel sensation (it IS vibrating). So i can keep it deep with minimum in out movement. While with a partner, he usually takes it out halfway then puts it back in, not much sustained pressure there.  </p>
<p>Honey is right, the 1/3 outer part of the vagina is the ticklish spot, and orgasms arising from this region are always pleasurable, in that the woman anticipates it (&#8220;yess yess&#8221;). With the deep spot orgasm, a woman could panic if she feels it for the first time as the sensation translates first as pain (though it&#8217;s not EXACTLY painful&#8230; more of a weird sensation between pain and pleasure that doesn&#8217;t have a name yet).</p>
<p>If she bears with the feeling of perceived pain, however, and keep at it for a little longer, the resulting orgasm is more profound than the superficial type. Like you&#8217;re dying/swooning, but with no control and no idea how to stop it. I usually yell NO instead of YES with this one because that weird pain-pleasure feeling as orgasm approaches through Deep Spot sensitization could make any first timer panic (i know i did). It almost always resulted in a few tears, .. in fact, i call it &#8220;emotional orgasm&#8221; (EO). Or, &#8220;overwhelmed with love for you, sweetheart&#8221;&#8230; <img src='http://honeyandlance.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>evilwoobies last blog post..<a href="http://evilwoobie.com/2008/06/04/wicked-love-messages-from-the-cosmic-universe/" rel="nofollow">Wicked Wedding Wishes from the Cosmic Universe</a></p>
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		<title>By: lisaq</title>
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		<dc:creator>lisaq</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 00:00:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh this is very good news for me now isn&#039;t it? ;) hehe...

lisaqs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://40ssingleness.blogspot.com/2008/06/online-dating-101-is-that-what-they.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Online Dating 101-Is That What They Really Think Women Want?&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh this is very good news for me now isn&#8217;t it? <img src='http://honeyandlance.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  hehe&#8230;</p>
<p>lisaqs last blog post..<a href="http://40ssingleness.blogspot.com/2008/06/online-dating-101-is-that-what-they.html" rel="nofollow">Online Dating 101-Is That What They Really Think Women Want?</a></p>
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		<title>By: cheekie</title>
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		<dc:creator>cheekie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 22:42:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A ha!
Ok, so I have experienced this...(blush) ... often...
just didn&#039;t know there was an actual moniker for it...

So nope, not an urban legend...at least not for me. Although, not every woman experiences this, of which there is nothing NOTHING wrong. Just like everything else in life, some can some can&#039;t. The best part is the playing around to find it...once you do, oh man. Holy hell....

My mom told me a story once about my grandmother. Her mom. She was a deeply religious woman, and when she had sex with her husband (my grandfather) this happened to her and she was so mortified and embarrassed that she hated sex from that day on. Which is such a sad, sad story. She even convinced all of her daughters that sex was bad and for men only.

Thank GOD I never had that impression put upon me ;-)

(and no, that&#039;s not the same grandparents I have previously written about)

Thanks Lance..or should I call you Mr. Sex Ed  
cheers!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A ha!<br />
Ok, so I have experienced this&#8230;(blush) &#8230; often&#8230;<br />
just didn&#8217;t know there was an actual moniker for it&#8230;</p>
<p>So nope, not an urban legend&#8230;at least not for me. Although, not every woman experiences this, of which there is nothing NOTHING wrong. Just like everything else in life, some can some can&#8217;t. The best part is the playing around to find it&#8230;once you do, oh man. Holy hell&#8230;.</p>
<p>My mom told me a story once about my grandmother. Her mom. She was a deeply religious woman, and when she had sex with her husband (my grandfather) this happened to her and she was so mortified and embarrassed that she hated sex from that day on. Which is such a sad, sad story. She even convinced all of her daughters that sex was bad and for men only.</p>
<p>Thank GOD I never had that impression put upon me <img src='http://honeyandlance.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>(and no, that&#8217;s not the same grandparents I have previously written about)</p>
<p>Thanks Lance..or should I call you Mr. Sex Ed<br />
cheers!</p>
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		<title>By: Lance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 22:06:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cool. My middle finger is exactly 3.5 inches long...is this long enough, or am I wriggling around in the wrong place?? 

@Honey: You should forward your BF this info and 
&quot;play&quot; with it. Report back your findings.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cool. My middle finger is exactly 3.5 inches long&#8230;is this long enough, or am I wriggling around in the wrong place?? </p>
<p>@Honey: You should forward your BF this info and<br />
&#8220;play&#8221; with it. Report back your findings.</p>
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