Comments on: 9 Ways To Pump Up Your Conversations http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations Dating, Relationships, Pickup, Life Thu, 18 Mar 2010 07:03:47 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Supermarket Dating – Cure for the Common Online Date | Dad's House http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-42606 Supermarket Dating – Cure for the Common Online Date | Dad's House Tue, 26 Jan 2010 07:17:44 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-42606 [...] standard Q&A bull session like it’s a job interview because you haven’t learned how to pump up your conversations, and despite quickly realizing there’s no chemistry, you keep talking until you’ve run out [...] [...] standard Q&A bull session like it’s a job interview because you haven’t learned how to pump up your conversations, and despite quickly realizing there’s no chemistry, you keep talking until you’ve run out [...]

]]> By: random sex questions to ask a guy http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-852 random sex questions to ask a guy Sun, 08 Jun 2008 04:55:48 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-852 [...] skills??all the advice out there says that exchanging information and interviewing each other is LAhttp://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversationsWill humans get down with robots? Creative Loafing CharlotteFuturistic fantasy flings... By Dan [...] [...] skills??all the advice out there says that exchanging information and interviewing each other is LAhttp://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversationsWill humans get down with robots? Creative Loafing CharlotteFuturistic fantasy flings… By Dan [...]

]]> By: Shannon http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-823 Shannon Wed, 04 Jun 2008 07:33:46 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-823 'Gray's Anatomy' hey? I always thought it was 'Grey's'. ;) Other than that, solid advice, the questions part is definitely true. I'm always interested in a guy who can ask me questions back and keep the conversation going. ‘Gray’s Anatomy’ hey? I always thought it was ‘Grey’s’. ;)

Other than that, solid advice, the questions part is definitely true. I’m always interested in a guy who can ask me questions back and keep the conversation going.

]]> By: Sabina http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-821 Sabina Wed, 04 Jun 2008 02:58:39 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-821 I like random funny guy! They always entertain me somehow and it just makes me feel so relax! anyway, I couldn't agree more to, "I’ll tell one and wait for her to tell one back, or switch threads." I actually do that! :) Sabinas last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/JuiceMag/~3/303614073/what-to-do-if-your-girlfriend-doesnt-take-the-contraceptive-pill" rel="nofollow">What to do if your girlfriend doesn’t take the contraceptive pill</a> I like random funny guy! They always entertain me somehow and it just makes me feel so relax! anyway, I couldn’t agree more to, “I’ll tell one and wait for her to tell one back, or switch threads.” I actually do that! :)

Sabinas last blog post..What to do if your girlfriend doesn’t take the contraceptive pill

]]> By: Supermarket Dating – Cure for the Common Online Date « Dad’s House http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-816 Supermarket Dating – Cure for the Common Online Date « Dad’s House Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:49:08 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-816 [...] standard Q&A bull session like it’s a job interview because you haven’t learned how to pump up your conversations, and despite quickly realizing there’s no chemistry, you keep talking until you’ve run out [...] [...] standard Q&A bull session like it’s a job interview because you haven’t learned how to pump up your conversations, and despite quickly realizing there’s no chemistry, you keep talking until you’ve run out [...]

]]> By: dadshouse http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-815 dadshouse Tue, 03 Jun 2008 07:43:54 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-815 Lance, great advice. Glad to see you're a Harper's man! It's one of my faves. I also read Spin to ground me squarely in pop culture. Marry, Date, Dump sounds like a fun game. I'll give it a try. I have to disagree with #6 - watch Gray's, etc. Dude, that is so metrosexual. It's good to watch stuff that's not sports, but I think you can skip all the boring chick TV and replace it with quality reading, like the books and magazines you wrote about. My 2 cents. dadshouses last blog post..<a href="http://dadshouseblog.com/2008/06/02/alt-rock-music-trivia-quiz/" rel="nofollow">Alt-Rock Music Trivia Quiz</a> Lance, great advice. Glad to see you’re a Harper’s man! It’s one of my faves. I also read Spin to ground me squarely in pop culture.

Marry, Date, Dump sounds like a fun game. I’ll give it a try.

I have to disagree with #6 – watch Gray’s, etc. Dude, that is so metrosexual. It’s good to watch stuff that’s not sports, but I think you can skip all the boring chick TV and replace it with quality reading, like the books and magazines you wrote about. My 2 cents.

dadshouses last blog post..Alt-Rock Music Trivia Quiz

]]> By: Hot Alpha Female http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-804 Hot Alpha Female Sun, 01 Jun 2008 07:04:06 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-804 hey dude, So here is the thing. I think that being a conversationalist is one of the most important things when it comes to dating. Having good conversations, not only communicates what you are saying ... but also what you are not saying. I think that stories are a great way to kind of build that rapport with not only your date but with anyone .. plus its a chance to talk about yourself *winks* N i love the questions that you ask. Because at least they are freaken different. I can't stand the normal questions of "where do you live, do you have siblings, where did you go to school" - like im dying of boredom just typing that stuff out!! Neways also just wanted to let you know that I'm holding a small competition over on my blog and would love to hear what you have to say =) Hot Alpha Female Hot Alpha Females last blog post..<a href="http://hotalphafemale.blogspot.com/2008/06/hafs-first-competition-ever-n-your.html" rel="nofollow">HAFs First Competition Ever !! - N Your Invited!!</a> hey dude,
So here is the thing. I think that being a conversationalist is one of the most important things when it comes to dating.

Having good conversations, not only communicates what you are saying … but also what you are not saying.

I think that stories are a great way to kind of build that rapport with not only your date but with anyone .. plus its a chance to talk about yourself *winks*

N i love the questions that you ask. Because at least they are freaken different.

I can’t stand the normal questions of “where do you live, do you have siblings, where did you go to school” – like im dying of boredom just typing that stuff out!!

Neways also just wanted to let you know that I’m holding a small competition over on my blog and would love to hear what you have to say =)

Hot Alpha Female

Hot Alpha Females last blog post..HAFs First Competition Ever !! – N Your Invited!!

]]> By: Lance http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-796 Lance Sat, 31 May 2008 16:33:04 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-796 Sure, back when I didn't know what I was doing I got awkward or shocked reactions. These days I'm pretty slick about how I transition to a sexual frame. My convo thread might go like this: high school hijinks->crazy online dates (includes a mention of kissing or hint of sex)->getting busted for getting it on->craziest place you've had sex. I actually had a date last night and we transitioned to talking about sex on the <i>car ride</i> on our way to the first bar. It was totally natural. I actually had to pull back from sex topics to regular stuff because it was going too fast! Sure, back when I didn’t know what I was doing I got awkward or shocked reactions. These days I’m pretty slick about how I transition to a sexual frame. My convo thread might go like this:
high school hijinks->crazy online dates (includes a mention of kissing or hint of sex)->getting busted for getting it on->craziest place you’ve had sex.

I actually had a date last night and we transitioned to talking about sex on the car ride on our way to the first bar. It was totally natural. I actually had to pull back from sex topics to regular stuff because it was going too fast!

]]> By: Nadine http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-789 Nadine Fri, 30 May 2008 18:55:09 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-789 Seriously Lance - don't you ever get really bad reactions to transfering to sexual content? I think I would have to be rather tipsy to talk with a guy I barely now about sex although I am really open-minded about this with friends, especially guys! Seriously Lance – don’t you ever get really bad reactions to transfering to sexual content? I think I would have to be rather tipsy to talk with a guy I barely now about sex although I am really open-minded about this with friends, especially guys!

]]> By: Lance http://honeyandlance.com/pump-up-your-conversations/comment-page-1#comment-788 Lance Fri, 30 May 2008 18:02:28 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/?p=166#comment-788 Guys definitely love talking about their gadgets. I've even given mine a name... Guys definitely love talking about their gadgets. I’ve even given mine a name…

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