Hello 30!

So, yesterday was it – my 30th birthday, or (since Jake prefers Roman numerals for this), XXX.

I had a great day!  Though it actually started Friday, when 10 of my co-workers joined me for one happy hour and then I went to another one with different folks afterwards – I had to turn down the many drinks I was offered so that I could, you know, drive home :-)  At work, cards and visits from everyone (I managed to escape cake and silly hats because it was the first day of school).  My supervisor got me a Harkins gift card, so I’ll probably go see a movie this weekend. 

On the downside, obviously facilities management didn’t care it was my birthday yesterday, because the a/c was broken and it was over 85 degrees in our building.  Ugh.  I was sweating like a pig, but since I had dinner reservations and I wanted to look nice, I was able to duck out early and cool off at my house. (The air’s fixed today, thank goodness.) Read the full article

TGIF In Honey-Land

I hope everyone has a great Friday!  Now that my three-part Revelations series is complete (check out Parts One, Two, and Three) I can give a brief update on what’s been going on lately.

First of all, I mentioned in mid-June that I was starting Weight Watchers.  I’ve lost about 14 pounds and just this week was able to start wearing my size 4 pants again.  This makes me officially skinnier than I was when Jake and I started dating.  I remember when we started dating I’d always bring my laundry over to his place (I didn’t have machines in my apartment, which was a duplex so I’d been going to a wash and fold) and he’d do it all for me… Read the full article

Revelations Part III: What’s Your Fighting Style?

This is Part III of a series.  You can read Part I here and Part II here.

Despite (or perhaps because) this is the revelation that I had first and feel is most important, it is the last (and hardest) to write.  I started off by calling the post “what I could do differently,” and then I tried to come up with a name that had something to do with compromise, but nothing was working and I just couldn’t get started.

Then I had a conversation with Jake this morning before leaving for work that cleared things up for me.  Despite not being especially philosophical, he is definitely a logical thinker because of his profession :-)  Here’s what I realized:

There’s a lot of focus out there on people’s so-called “love styles.”  In case you haven’t heard of this, you can read about it here, here, here, or here (For starters.  There are similar quizzes everywhere).  The styles are physical touch, quality time, gifts, words of affirmation, and acts of service.  However, each and every “love style” is more than that – it is also a preferred communication style, which means it’s also your fighting style. And it’s just as important to know how to communicate when your relationship is under stress as it is when everything’s great (maybe more so). Read the full article

Revelations Part II: What He Said, and “The Plan”

This is Part II of three.  You can read Part I here.

First of all, on a side note, Lance has demanded that the BF have a name.  Unfortunately, I told the BF he could name himself.  So, his name is Jake.  Honey and Jake…sigh.

Back on topic…much to my delight, this past weekend reaffirmed just how much Jake and I really do get along when he isn’t being taken to the emergency room or drinking himself into a stupor because of work stress.  The best part, however, was what he said on Friday when we were having drinks with his work friend, Dick. Read the full article

Three Quick Things I Learned From Recent Dates

I’ve been on a flurry of dates recently and I’ve noticed three interesting things…

1. Interesting thing #1, or My Chodey Behavior: I’m aggressive and really fast during the initial stage of attraction (ie first date), which is great, but then I keep the pace too intense and it’s screwing me up for the next stages. Read the full article

Revelations, Part 1: The Weekend

Things are finally settling down a little.  Things got a little worse with the BF and I at the very beginning of the month.  This was mostly because he hadn’t been able to take any time off (or even get home at a reasonable hour).  In fact, he had to drive to CA with a client for two days for some work that had to be done on-location. 

However, he got back at 3 a.m. Monday night/Tuesday morning and I sat up with him a bit…he was fortunately able to work from home the next day while I had to drag my sorry butt to work.  But after that, I could tell we were over some sort of invisible hump that has been in our way since the incident. Read the full article

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