Comments on: I Just Did A Kegel (FB pt 2) http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2 The Straight Dope On Everything In The Universe Thu, 20 Nov 2008 21:16:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: The Dateable Dork http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-281 The Dateable Dork Thu, 03 Apr 2008 00:42:15 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-281 Hahahaha, I am getting such a kick out of this. The things men will do to fuck a 23-year-old. I've gotta hand it to you Lance, you really know what you're doing, and congrats on the crazy monkey sex. But where are the details??? : ) <em>The Dateable Dork's last blog post..<a href='http://thedateabledork.typepad.com/thedateabledork/2008/04/with-my-feet-ba.html' rel="nofollow">With my feet back on the ground</a></em> Hahahaha, I am getting such a kick out of this. The things men will do to fuck a 23-year-old. I’ve gotta hand it to you Lance, you really know what you’re doing, and congrats on the crazy monkey sex. But where are the details??? : )

The Dateable Dork’s last blog post..With my feet back on the ground

]]> By: Becca aka Chaotic Kitten http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-278 Becca aka Chaotic Kitten Thu, 03 Apr 2008 00:29:24 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-278 This reminds me of a time when I was hanging out with a friend of mine and her BF, and his friend who was totally macking on my friend in front of her BF, and she got totally wasted, I had to babysit her, everybody winds up back at her place, and next thing I know, the friend is hitting on me because my friend's a sloppy drunk. It was a mess. And that's putting it lightly. Sorry, back to the topic at hand, from what I can see, you're taking to this game like a fish to water. I give you props, it's not easy. <em>Becca aka Chaotic Kitten's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/phantasmagoric/~3/262941895/my-idea-of-successful-relationship.html' rel="nofollow">My Idea of a Successful Relationship</a></em> This reminds me of a time when I was hanging out with a friend of mine and her BF, and his friend who was totally macking on my friend in front of her BF, and she got totally wasted, I had to babysit her, everybody winds up back at her place, and next thing I know, the friend is hitting on me because my friend’s a sloppy drunk. It was a mess. And that’s putting it lightly.

Sorry, back to the topic at hand, from what I can see, you’re taking to this game like a fish to water. I give you props, it’s not easy.

Becca aka Chaotic Kitten’s last blog post..My Idea of a Successful Relationship

]]> By: Hot Alpha Female http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-264 Hot Alpha Female Wed, 02 Apr 2008 09:34:16 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-264 Well i think that there is a difference between trying hard and a try hard. lol I mean i think its great that guys actually take the time out to learn these skills. At the end of the day, building attraction and what not is a skill. Its a skill in being able to sell yourself. Its a people skill. Its a whole lot of different skills combined. A try hard on the other hand, is ummm basically a guy who has too much of an ego to really learn what really needs to be learnt. He is attempting to be something that he is not. he is trying to be cool .. when really ne is just a nerdy shy little boy. Its all about overall mindset and how you see yourself and who you think you are. That is what this whole "game" is about. HAF <em>Hot Alpha Female's last blog post..<a href='http://hotalphafemale.blogspot.com/2008/03/is-there-anything-such-as-perfect-pick.html' rel="nofollow">Is There Anything Such As The Perfect Pick Up?</a></em> Well i think that there is a difference between trying hard and a try hard. lol

I mean i think its great that guys actually take the time out to learn these skills.

At the end of the day, building attraction and what not is a skill. Its a skill in being able to sell yourself. Its a people skill. Its a whole lot of different skills combined.

A try hard on the other hand, is ummm basically a guy who has too much of an ego to really learn what really needs to be learnt. He is attempting to be something that he is not. he is trying to be cool .. when really ne is just a nerdy shy little boy.

Its all about overall mindset and how you see yourself and who you think you are. That is what this whole “game” is about.

HAF

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]]> By: Matt Savage http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-261 Matt Savage Wed, 02 Apr 2008 03:57:50 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-261 (accidentally hit the button - this is continued from above) I think Lance hit the nail on the head when he said, "these guys are invisible to you." The problem is, attraction comes easily to most women of beauty, that's simply the way the world works. While men are growing up playing guns and building forts, girls are talking about boys and reading Tiger Beat. There is simply a disadvantage for guys and if they don't have natural game then what else are they going to do? Masturbate to porn until their late 40s while sporting a chester the molester mustache? That seems much more creepy to me than a guy that is trying to improve himself to become more attractive to women...don't cha think...me thinks? Lance, great field report by the way and sorry for the double comment post, feel free to edit if you wish:) Matt <em>Matt Savage's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheModernSavage/~3/256691316/' rel="nofollow">The Mr. Bubble Number Close</a></em> (accidentally hit the button - this is continued from above)

I think Lance hit the nail on the head when he said, “these guys are invisible to you.”

The problem is, attraction comes easily to most women of beauty, that’s simply the way the world works. While men are growing up playing guns and building forts, girls are talking about boys and reading Tiger Beat. There is simply a disadvantage for guys and if they don’t have natural game then what else are they going to do? Masturbate to porn until their late 40s while sporting a chester the molester mustache? That seems much more creepy to me than a guy that is trying to improve himself to become more attractive to women…don’t cha think…me thinks?

Lance, great field report by the way and sorry for the double comment post, feel free to edit if you wish:)

Matt

Matt Savage’s last blog post..The Mr. Bubble Number Close

]]> By: Matt Savage http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-260 Matt Savage Wed, 02 Apr 2008 03:44:11 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-260 Me Thinks, You're horny, I'm definitely horny, so lets hook up...right? Ahhh, if it were only that easy. I spent most of my post-pubescent life as a horny nice guy and nothing came easy or at all for that matter. I think Lance hit the nail on the head when he said <em>Matt Savage's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheModernSavage/~3/256691316/' rel="nofollow">The Mr. Bubble Number Close</a></em> Me Thinks,

You’re horny, I’m definitely horny, so lets hook up…right? Ahhh, if it were only that easy. I spent most of my post-pubescent life as a horny nice guy and nothing came easy or at all for that matter.

I think Lance hit the nail on the head when he said

Matt Savage’s last blog post..The Mr. Bubble Number Close

]]> By: Honey http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-258 Honey Wed, 02 Apr 2008 01:13:03 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-258 Bobby Rio, I agree that most girls who say "why do guys make it so hard?" are failing to take into account how easy it is for them. OTOH, if guys stopped trying so hard, it'd be harder for girls to meet quality guys--then they'd be glad enough for any nice guy that talked to them! Haha :-) Bobby Rio, I agree that most girls who say “why do guys make it so hard?” are failing to take into account how easy it is for them.

OTOH, if guys stopped trying so hard, it’d be harder for girls to meet quality guys–then they’d be glad enough for any nice guy that talked to them! Haha :-)

]]> By: Bobby Rio http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-253 Bobby Rio Tue, 01 Apr 2008 02:24:47 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-253 Cool FR Lance, its always rewarding when a night pans out just as you hoped when its all said and done. Me thinks... You're right to a point.. but until a guy develops his game it isn't quite that easy to pickup a hot attractive girl. Sure once you've done it a few times it gets easier.. but many guys have never done it. I think Lance went into detail for the sake of the story and to give some tips for guys reading. I also think its funny when a hot girls says "guys make it so much harder than it is" these same girls are picky little bitches that don't give a guy chance unless he's roided up, sells coke, and drives a BMW...hahaha <em>Bobby Rio's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/theseductionbible/~3/261592589/' rel="nofollow">George Clooney’s Girlfriend Sara Larson is Sorority Girl Goodness</a></em> Cool FR Lance, its always rewarding when a night pans out just as you hoped when its all said and done.

Me thinks…

You’re right to a point.. but until a guy develops his game it isn’t quite that easy to pickup a hot attractive girl.

Sure once you’ve done it a few times it gets easier.. but many guys have never done it.

I think Lance went into detail for the sake of the story and to give some tips for guys reading.

I also think its funny when a hot girls says “guys make it so much harder than it is” these same girls are picky little bitches that don’t give a guy chance unless he’s roided up, sells coke, and drives a BMW…hahaha

Bobby Rio’s last blog post..George Clooney’s Girlfriend Sara Larson is Sorority Girl Goodness

]]> By: Lance http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-251 Lance Mon, 31 Mar 2008 13:54:07 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-251 Thanks for the comment. I love answering these. Let me ask...how hard does a short guy have to work to get laid with a tall woman? How about an ugly dude with a hot chick? How about a fat guy with any chick? (Heaven help you if you're all three). The answer is, if you ain't got game, <i>pretty damn hard.</i> If you're a normally disqualified male (short, fat, ugly, poor, whatever), you don't just go out and get laid with the hotts. These guys are invisible to you. So my response is, you work as hard as you need to get what you want. Personally, I love having multiple options, so I work hard to generate those options. I also work hard to maintain healthy relationships. Probably the tone of my post wasn't totally spot on, but gaming is actually a ton of fun. There's nothing sad about it. I <i>love to go out</i> and socialize. I love to go to a bar, find a hot chick, and get to the point where I'm making out with her shortly after meeting her. It's a fucking blast. At it's core, gaming is just flirting and logistical handling. I never go out with the attitude that I want to conquer woman, because that's the opposite of what it's about. But I do have a plan. Again, thanks for reading. I hope you stick around and continue to offer your perspective. Thanks for the comment. I love answering these. Let me ask…how hard does a short guy have to work to get laid with a tall woman?
How about an ugly dude with a hot chick? How about a fat guy with any chick? (Heaven help you if you’re all three).

The answer is, if you ain’t got game, pretty damn hard. If you’re a normally disqualified male (short, fat, ugly, poor, whatever), you don’t just go out and get laid with the hotts. These guys are invisible to you. So my response is, you work as hard as you need to get what you want. Personally, I love having multiple options, so I work hard to generate those options. I also work hard to maintain healthy relationships.

Probably the tone of my post wasn’t totally spot on, but gaming is actually a ton of fun. There’s nothing sad about it. I love to go out and socialize. I love to go to a bar, find a hot chick, and get to the point where I’m making out with her shortly after meeting her. It’s a fucking blast.

At it’s core, gaming is just flirting and logistical handling. I never go out with the attitude that I want to conquer woman, because that’s the opposite of what it’s about. But I do have a plan.

Again, thanks for reading. I hope you stick around and continue to offer your perspective.

]]> By: Lance http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-250 Lance Mon, 31 Mar 2008 13:12:46 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-250 Katie, thanks for reading and thanks for the tip on the website. I'll definitely 'check it out,' hee hee. Katie, thanks for reading and thanks for the tip on the website. I’ll definitely ‘check it out,’ hee hee.

]]> By: Me Thinks http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-249 Me Thinks Mon, 31 Mar 2008 03:34:53 +0000 http://honeyandlance.com/my-fuck-buddy-2#comment-249 Wow. I read this and am totally fucking amazed at how hard men have to work at this! While I respect your open-ness, I can't help but think its pretty sad that you have to put this much work into just getting laid. As an attractive woman, I do realize all I have to do is wear a low cut blouse and/or short skirt, add a smile and I'm all but fucked (quality not guaranteed). I commit all the dating "don'ts" and still have boyfriends or sex when I want it. Yes it just isn't fair but still I cannot help but feel a little creeped out to think its about "game" with all the planning and playing when I just assumed we were two horny people hooking up and was perfectly happy with that. So my point is this - I seriously do not think you have to work this hard to get laid by a hot girl. If you are relatively attractive, fun, smart, have a sense of humor and social skills (I know you agres with that one) then there are girls like me that will happily fuck you and if you are lucky, just want a good FB without all the drama. I get it that you have to work at meeting up with people but - all this gaming... do you enjoy this beyond just conquering? I dunno, I like your site, I'm not hating on you at all but it seems you are more about proving your game than actually just enjoying yourself and having a fun time and getting your rocks off. Wow. I read this and am totally fucking amazed at how hard men have to work at this! While I respect your open-ness, I can’t help but think its pretty sad that you have to put this much work into just getting laid. As an attractive woman, I do realize all I have to do is wear a low cut blouse and/or short skirt, add a smile and I’m all but fucked (quality not guaranteed). I commit all the dating “don’ts” and still have boyfriends or sex when I want it. Yes it just isn’t fair but still I cannot help but feel a little creeped out to think its about “game” with all the planning and playing when I just assumed we were two horny people hooking up and was perfectly happy with that.

So my point is this - I seriously do not think you have to work this hard to get laid by a hot girl. If you are relatively attractive, fun, smart, have a sense of humor and social skills (I know you agres with that one) then there are girls like me that will happily fuck you and if you are lucky, just want a good FB without all the drama. I get it that you have to work at meeting up with people but - all this gaming… do you enjoy this beyond just conquering? I dunno, I like your site, I’m not hating on you at all but it seems you are more about proving your game than actually just enjoying yourself and having a fun time and getting your rocks off.

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