Comments on: Lance’s Take: Key To Successful Relationships

By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Thu, 10 Apr 2008 11:43:39 +0000

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Really good advice, Lance. I totally agree - experience is key. I’ve spent too much time trying to date people with little to no experience, and needless to say, I won’t be doing that again, and I wouldn’t want someone to have to do that with me. You need to have your shit together before you can get a great partner. I don’t care how you get it, but guys had better have it before they meet me. : )

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By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 21:52:19 +0000

Lance, great post. I love how you keep encouraging people to get out there - “see how she reacts. See how you react.” These real life experiences give you so much better information about what’s important to you than reading any book or match.com profile can ever give. Attraction is decided by your whole body in a Blink of an eye. It’s not something to be intellectualized.

So tell me, did approach #1563 and #1564 turn into a threesome?

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By: Lance

Lance — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:40:24 +0000

Thanks, glad you liked it. I’ve come to realize that nothing beats volume in terms gaining relationship knowledge. Of course, you have to be smart about your interactions and make sure you’re moving in the right direction.

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By: Hot Alpha Female

Hot Alpha Female — Wed, 09 Apr 2008 08:28:41 +0000

Hey lance,
You know you bring up a great point there. Experience. I was thinking today … Relationships really give us a basis to learn things about ourselves so that we can improve while in that relationship or next time.

Too many times, people think that successful relationships are based on things being perfect.

But the fact of the matter is .. that you will have challenges .. and its not a matter of “IF” challenges arise its a matter of “WHEN” they do and how you deal with them .. as a partnership.

Great response =)

HAF

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By: cheekie

cheekie — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 17:05:03 +0000

Brilliant there buddy…
I especially agree with ‘If you have enough sex, you realize it’s not such a big deal and it doesn’t run your life.’
So many guys make huge mistakes in this area. Either they come off desperate, or, they get the sex they have been craving and bail after.
Just go out and get an FB or one-nighter and spare the serious prospects the hurt…seriously, it doesn’t mean you are a bad guy. And it sure as hell isn’t the mark of a good guy just because he claims to have never had a one night stand, or FB (good girls have them too, hey, we like sex, honest!)

One other aspect though is that some people (male and female) get so used to ‘just playing’ that any kind of serious prospect scares the crap out of them due to being out of practice….or just plain ‘enjoying the ride’ with no thought of the future or care to give up their ‘youth’.

I frankly hate dating, hate hate hate it. lol.
But it is a necessary evil. And I have had a lot of fun, met some amazing guys that are still friends, and have learned a lot about myself that I would never have learnt if I did the serial LTR thing yet again…

I think of it like this, you read Green Eggs and Ham before attempting War and Peace right?