Comments on: Lance’s Marriage Makers

By: Lance

Lance — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 03:58:48 +0000

Hah! I bet you know things. I think they’re intertwined and my list wasn’t necessarily in order of priority.

By: Danimal's Wife

Danimal's Wife — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 00:39:56 +0000

Interesting that great sex is first. Great sex only comes when you have 2 and 3. I know things.

By: Scot McKay

Scot McKay — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 18:51:18 +0000

Ironically, I have an article on Seduction-Chronicles today that touches on this very subject.

I think you pretty much nailed it. I’d add that she has to be emotionally stable and healthy enough to be one half of a great relationship in general…as we as guys must be also.

If she hates men, runs a vicious double-standard, is insanely jealous or otherwise popping “Vitamin P” then there’s no foundation to build a healthy relationship on.

I read through the Zinczenko piece and have to agree with you there, Lance. His juxtaposition of “Jekyll and Hyde” with “Marriage Maker” made me literally shudder. It’s a long story as to why, but I’m still slackjawed by that analogy. LOL

By: dadshouse

dadshouse — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 06:27:16 +0000

Lisaq - were we married? lol

I agree, having been married and divorced, the things Lance says are all true - you need great sex, companionship, and potential to grow both as a couple and as individuals. I think sometimes partners stifle the individual growth in the other. And when that happens, the marriage goes sour fast.

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By: lisaq

lisaq — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 15:59:50 +0000

As someone who’s been down the marriage road more times than I sometimes like to admit, I completely agree. I can think of about a million other things, but I think they really could probably fit into your categories.

From the standpoint of what was missing in my marriages, I’d have to say that mutual respect and valuing each other as individuals who have a life outside of the relationship as well is a must have for me.

Nicely done!

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By: Hot Alpha Female

Hot Alpha Female — Sat, 05 Jul 2008 01:53:12 +0000

Lance these are great points. N the ironic thing is that there are probably a lot of people in a relaitonship who are getting NONE of these things.

lol

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