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		<title>By: Hai</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/lances-best-advice-ever#comment-1174</link>
		<dc:creator>Hai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 03:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey there mate,
Love your post, Finally found someone I can relate to. The thing about a mentor--hell it's even hard enough to find people of the same values to be friends with, much less a mentor. That's why I've been alone for the past several years. Can't find anyone who thinks and values the same stuff as me.  So instead of hanging out with people who aren't the same as me, or even superior to me, I've chosen to go it alone. Though when I do find people of value, I cannot be close to them for some reason, they seem to have agendas of their own. Oh well, that's the way things are I guess right?&#62;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey there mate,<br />
Love your post, Finally found someone I can relate to. The thing about a mentor&#8211;hell it&#8217;s even hard enough to find people of the same values to be friends with, much less a mentor. That&#8217;s why I&#8217;ve been alone for the past several years. Can&#8217;t find anyone who thinks and values the same stuff as me.  So instead of hanging out with people who aren&#8217;t the same as me, or even superior to me, I&#8217;ve chosen to go it alone. Though when I do find people of value, I cannot be close to them for some reason, they seem to have agendas of their own. Oh well, that&#8217;s the way things are I guess right?&gt;</p>
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		<title>By: Evaine</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/lances-best-advice-ever#comment-405</link>
		<dc:creator>Evaine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 14:07:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post. You make some great points that most people do not fully understand.

"Be Masculine. A lot of dudes, especially younger ones, have trouble with this one, but it’s absurdly important. Probably nothing is more attractive than a man who is competent at being a man. Be a leader, learn to take charge, and be the alpha dog. Have ambitions and lofty goals. Never settle for mediocrity. Be honorable, truthful, and kind. When you’re good at being a man, you’ll radiate confidence, power, and sex appeal. Speaking of sex, when you’re having it, screw like a champion. Don’t forget to be vulnerable and show emotion, otherwise you’ll come off as a robot."

I like how you explained that. Very helpful. Thanks.

&lt;em&gt;Evaine's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/blog/what-to-do-when-trapped-in-an-argument/' rel="nofollow"&gt;what to do when trapped in an argument&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post. You make some great points that most people do not fully understand.</p>
<p>&#8220;Be Masculine. A lot of dudes, especially younger ones, have trouble with this one, but it’s absurdly important. Probably nothing is more attractive than a man who is competent at being a man. Be a leader, learn to take charge, and be the alpha dog. Have ambitions and lofty goals. Never settle for mediocrity. Be honorable, truthful, and kind. When you’re good at being a man, you’ll radiate confidence, power, and sex appeal. Speaking of sex, when you’re having it, screw like a champion. Don’t forget to be vulnerable and show emotion, otherwise you’ll come off as a robot.&#8221;</p>
<p>I like how you explained that. Very helpful. Thanks.</p>
<p><em>Evaine&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/blog/what-to-do-when-trapped-in-an-argument/'>what to do when trapped in an argument</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Attraction Theory</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/lances-best-advice-ever#comment-155</link>
		<dc:creator>Attraction Theory</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 01:53:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very sound advice, concise and should be valued.

http://attractiontheory.blogspot.com

&lt;em&gt;Attraction Theory's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://attractiontheory.blogspot.com/2008/03/creating-aura-part-ii-your-actions.html' rel="nofollow"&gt;Creating an Aura (Part II) - Your Actions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very sound advice, concise and should be valued.</p>
<p><a href="http://attractiontheory.blogspot.com">http://attractiontheory.blogspot.com</a></p>
<p><em>Attraction Theory&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://attractiontheory.blogspot.com/2008/03/creating-aura-part-ii-your-actions.html'>Creating an Aura (Part II) - Your Actions</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: chiz</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/lances-best-advice-ever#comment-144</link>
		<dc:creator>chiz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 14:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post. You make some great points that most people do not fully understand.

"Be Masculine. A lot of dudes, especially younger ones, have trouble with this one, but it’s absurdly important. Probably nothing is more attractive than a man who is competent at being a man. Be a leader, learn to take charge, and be the alpha dog. Have ambitions and lofty goals. Never settle for mediocrity. Be honorable, truthful, and kind. When you’re good at being a man, you’ll radiate confidence, power, and sex appeal. Speaking of sex, when you’re having it, screw like a champion. Don’t forget to be vulnerable and show emotion, otherwise you’ll come off as a robot."

I like how you explained that. Very helpful. Thanks.

&lt;em&gt;chiz's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/blog/what-to-do-when-trapped-in-an-argument/' rel="nofollow"&gt;what to do when trapped in an argument&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post. You make some great points that most people do not fully understand.</p>
<p>&#8220;Be Masculine. A lot of dudes, especially younger ones, have trouble with this one, but it’s absurdly important. Probably nothing is more attractive than a man who is competent at being a man. Be a leader, learn to take charge, and be the alpha dog. Have ambitions and lofty goals. Never settle for mediocrity. Be honorable, truthful, and kind. When you’re good at being a man, you’ll radiate confidence, power, and sex appeal. Speaking of sex, when you’re having it, screw like a champion. Don’t forget to be vulnerable and show emotion, otherwise you’ll come off as a robot.&#8221;</p>
<p>I like how you explained that. Very helpful. Thanks.</p>
<p><em>chiz&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/blog/what-to-do-when-trapped-in-an-argument/'>what to do when trapped in an argument</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Problogger readers get a free nudie pic&#8230; &#124; Honey and Lance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Problogger readers get a free nudie pic&#8230; &#124; Honey and Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Mar 2008 00:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Bobby Rio: Great post&#8230; their is a saying a friend told me recently &#8220;build it and they will come&#8221;... [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Bobby Rio</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/lances-best-advice-ever#comment-126</link>
		<dc:creator>Bobby Rio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Mar 2008 23:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post... their is a saying a friend told me recently "build it and they will come" talking about your ideal life.  Once all of the peices of your ideal life are in place... it will be much easier to find the right girl to join you for the rest of your journey

&lt;em&gt;Bobby Rio's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/theseductionbible/~3/248006854/' rel="nofollow"&gt;WWE Diva Maria in Playboy Magazine&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post&#8230; their is a saying a friend told me recently &#8220;build it and they will come&#8221; talking about your ideal life.  Once all of the peices of your ideal life are in place&#8230; it will be much easier to find the right girl to join you for the rest of your journey</p>
<p><em>Bobby Rio&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/theseductionbible/~3/248006854/'>WWE Diva Maria in Playboy Magazine</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Weekend Roundup: Thanks To Our Peeps Edition &#124; Honey and Lance</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/lances-best-advice-ever#comment-119</link>
		<dc:creator>Weekend Roundup: Thanks To Our Peeps Edition &#124; Honey and Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 20:02:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Hot Alpha Female: China Blue: your last post name is freaken hilarious i love it!! Lance: Fab post. I actually learnt... [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Hot Alpha Female: China Blue: your last post name is freaken hilarious i love it!! Lance: Fab post. I actually learnt&#8230; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Hot Alpha Female &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Why Don&#8217;t You date Youself?! - The Power Of A Magnetic Personality</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/lances-best-advice-ever#comment-116</link>
		<dc:creator>Hot Alpha Female &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Why Don&#8217;t You date Youself?! - The Power Of A Magnetic Personality</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 10:09:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Lance: 5 Ways To Be More Attractive, Stop Sucking, and Dominate Your Life [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Hot Alpha Female</title>
		<link>http://honeyandlance.com/lances-best-advice-ever#comment-113</link>
		<dc:creator>Hot Alpha Female</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 01:27:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>China Blue: your last post name is freaken hilarious i love it!! 

Lance: Fab post. I actually learnt a couple of things from it! LoL

But like you said i think the inner game is one of the most important starting places for guys and girls. 

I think guys need to focus more on building their confidence and then learning the skills

And girls, just really need to get their own lives .. so that they have the esteem and self confidence to attractive more appropriate guys into their lives. LoL

Hot Alpha Female

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>China Blue: your last post name is freaken hilarious i love it!! </p>
<p>Lance: Fab post. I actually learnt a couple of things from it! LoL</p>
<p>But like you said i think the inner game is one of the most important starting places for guys and girls. </p>
<p>I think guys need to focus more on building their confidence and then learning the skills</p>
<p>And girls, just really need to get their own lives .. so that they have the esteem and self confidence to attractive more appropriate guys into their lives. LoL</p>
<p>Hot Alpha Female</p>
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		<title>By: Lance</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 01:16:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>China, thanks so much for reading. Great comment. You raise some interesting questions. The honor, truth, and kindness line is of ultimate importance, but it's something that many men have to work on their whole lives, including myself. We're always tested, and unfortunately sometimes we fail. You just have to try your best and learn from mistakes. 

The line where passion alienates relating is a blurry one. I've gone back and forth over it myself. It's better to be passionate and learn moderation than the other way around, where you're too scared to let it all hang out. That's my take. 

I haven't read the Wurtzel book, but I'll check it out.

&lt;em&gt;Lance's last blog post..&lt;a href='http://honeyandlance.com/the-move-in-dance-part-1-the-dvr' rel="nofollow"&gt;The Move-In Dance Part 1: The DVR&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>China, thanks so much for reading. Great comment. You raise some interesting questions. The honor, truth, and kindness line is of ultimate importance, but it&#8217;s something that many men have to work on their whole lives, including myself. We&#8217;re always tested, and unfortunately sometimes we fail. You just have to try your best and learn from mistakes. </p>
<p>The line where passion alienates relating is a blurry one. I&#8217;ve gone back and forth over it myself. It&#8217;s better to be passionate and learn moderation than the other way around, where you&#8217;re too scared to let it all hang out. That&#8217;s my take. </p>
<p>I haven&#8217;t read the Wurtzel book, but I&#8217;ll check it out.</p>
<p><em>Lance&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://honeyandlance.com/the-move-in-dance-part-1-the-dvr'>The Move-In Dance Part 1: The DVR</a></em></p>
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