Comments on: Downgrade Your Relationship to Upgrade Your Sex Life

By: Sandra

Sandra — Tue, 19 May 2009 01:49:43 +0000

I think FB sex can work for some. In fact, it works for a lot of people, so it must be good.

I don’t do it, because it’s like a guy telling me

“I still want to fuck you, but now I don’t have to call you, and if I want to bang another girl and just drop you without telling you, you have to accept that. Oh and btw, if I want to cancel sex with you at the last minute, you can’t be upset either.”

By: Honey

Honey — Tue, 19 May 2009 01:00:38 +0000

OH, SMS, it was AWFUL. It had at least 10 ingredients (potatoes, carrots, onions, tofu, snap peas, green beans, rice, tofu, cheese and I know I'm forgetting SOMETHING) that all had to be cooked separately prior to being put in the casserole and cooked AGAIN, PLUS homemade cheese sauce. It took probably 3 hours. Never. Again. Honey´s last blog post...Best. Party. Ever.

By: Single Mom Seeking

Single Mom Seeking — Tue, 19 May 2009 00:30:33 +0000

Ditto on the details... double dare you! The current hot man in my life has taken off to go rafting for a week -- while I'm home packing to move. Granted, he invited me on the trip, so it's not like he just split town... But I'm too stressed to actually miss him in THAT way right now. Honey, what was that challenging casserole recipe? You crack me up. Single Mom Seeking´s last blog post...A boyfriend and a blog

By: Janak

Janak — Sun, 10 May 2009 23:39:36 +0000

As a male cyber-acquaintance, I would just like to take this opportunity to reinforce the essential okayness of your heartless fornicatory adventure. Janak´s last blog post...Weekly Roundup - Top 10 Casual Sex Links from Around the Web

By: Lance

Lance — Sat, 09 May 2009 03:09:22 +0000

I'll work on it. I had another multi-hour, 20 orgasm encounter about 2 weeks ago I can probably bust out. Lance´s last blog post...Vague Dissatisfactions

By: Lance

Lance — Sat, 09 May 2009 03:07:38 +0000

Haha, funny comment. Most couples don't have the great LTR that Honey has. I'm very happy for her, though. Lance´s last blog post...Vague Dissatisfactions

By: Lance

Lance — Sat, 09 May 2009 03:03:51 +0000

Erica, thanks for commenting. I admit, it hasn't been a big sex party for the last two months. There have been blowups, miscommunications, and hurt feelings. I don't recommend this unless both parties are ABSOLUTELY certain about what they are getting into and where the stand. I would even go so far as to say that both people have to be actively looking at other prospects. It would also be smart to insert a "cooling off" period between the end of the LTR and the beginning of the FB, say a month or so. For me, the insight has been the spacing and the time management. I've definitely found my current boundary on the amount of time & energy I can put into a relationship, and that is less than what most chicks are looking for. Lance´s last blog post...Vague Dissatisfactions

By: Adonis

Adonis — Sat, 09 May 2009 03:01:06 +0000

I’ve always found that it is easier to start the relationship out more casual then up things later if you want…Going the other way around has never been as easy to work out…

By: The Dateable Dork

The Dateable Dork — Sat, 09 May 2009 01:43:54 +0000

Lance, my dear, if you’re having dirty, dirty sex, I want the freaking details! : )

By: Honey

Honey — Fri, 08 May 2009 21:44:47 +0000

I think that, like others have hinted at, the reason that the sex is so great is that you don't have to split your attention/focus/energy on your compatibility AND the sex...it's all on the sex. And you know each other and know you're not going to get a disease, so there's that comfort level, too. IMO, while FB can work with exes, not RECENT exes. One (or both) of you is going to make the mistake of thinking that because you are getting along better, having better sex...that you should try and get back together. But if you do, you will only go back to exactly the same dynamic as you had when you were dating, and make each other miserable. Honey´s last blog post...Defining Casual Sex