By Lance on Apr 4, 2010 in Dating, Featured, Game | comments(14)
There were some good comments on my post When I Act Dumb Chicks Want To Sleep With Me More, so I thought I’d write a followup and dive into how acting dumb makes you more attractive.
When I said I acted dumb what I meant was I act tactically dumb, that is, I might purposefully act clueless, shallow, jackassey, or not have an opinion on something in order to generate attraction. At first blush this might be perceived as being dumb, but if you unpack it this is what you get:
* I’ll act clueless about a subject in order to draw out conversation or pump up her enthusiasm about something. Honey mentioned this tactic in her comment. An example might be acting clueless about a genre of music so that she’ll get fired up about explaining it to me, even though I know tons of stuff about that genre. Everyone I know does this, knowingly or unknowingly.
By Lance on Mar 30, 2010 in Featured, Field Report, Game, Sex | comments(11)
I picked up this mediocre looking chick at a bar recently (pic on the left is NOT her). I haven’t done bar pickups in months because I have a new girlfriend, but I was with my wing Lilly and we both needed the practice so there we were.
My opening line to the set: “You two look interesting.” Easy hook from there. I had a phone number and an invite to tour her facility (she works in an art space) within 15 minutes.
I have since met up with this chick, who I’ll call Anna, three times since the PU. The first time we had lunch and that was super duper boring. She talked a mile-a-minute and I couldn’t get a word in edge-wise, which combined with the setting meant I couldn’t generate any attraction. I dipped out of lunch quickly and figured I’d never see the chick again.
The second time I engineered a meetup that same night at a bar. She left her dinner party from across town and met me. We shot pool, danced a little, and had a pretty good time. Minimal talking. We made out at the bar and I took her to my house. We made out on my couch for about an hour. She was a lousy kisser. Because of this, I opted not to push for the lay and I sent her packing at 4:00 am. Plus, she talked too much.
By Lance on Feb 5, 2010 in Game | comments(8)
(Another pic of Lance)
Okay, who wants to have a totally jacked chest that will have chicks pawing at you? This guy right here does. Ups to Dadshouse who inspired me to write this from his comment in my post on destroying creepiness and improving your life.
By Lance on Jan 26, 2010 in Featured, Game | comments(9)
In my previous post on creepiness I talked about why guys get creepy and also tried to dispel a few misconceptions on creepiness and pickup arts. I stated that studying pickup and practicing social skills has improved every area of my life, and I meant it. Now it’s time to share some strategies anyone can use to destroy creepiness and get more social.
So without further ado, 7 ways to destroy creepiness and improve your social life. Continued
By Lance on Jan 20, 2010 in Game | comments(9)
Blatantly stealing a page from one of my favorite blogs, fakesteve.net, I couldn’t resist doing some Microsoft bashing. Continued
By Honey on Nov 19, 2009 in Featured, Game | comments(6)
So, I’ve been helping one of my ex students from back in the day get into grad school. As a token of appreciation, he sent me a dozen gourmet chocolate covered strawberries from Shari’s Berries.
(Photo credit Shari’s Berries – buy some, they’re amazing! And no, I’m not an affiliate) Continued