Author Archive for Lance
Lance is an aspiring social artist based in Central Florida. His goal is to be a kickass dude, meet cool people, and generally dominate at life. He enjoys sports, surfing, socializing, reading and writing.
By Lance on Apr 28, 2011 in Dating | comments(6)
After reading Exploring Online Hookups on the rabbitwrite blog, I was inspired to experiment with Craigslist Casual Encounters. I’ve actually had a bit of success with Casual Encounters in the past. Four years ago I went on a few dates with a model I met on CL when I was living in Tennessee. We had a great time but it went nowhere. Four years ago is a long time in CL world and I know it’s changed a lot since then. I wanted to revisit and see what the landscape was like.
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By Lance on Apr 20, 2011 in Featured, Sex | comments(4)
Cheetahs! This post is a bit late, but I’d like to give big props to the following bloggers who participated in our blogger roundtable on sexual compatibility. I’m a big fan of community building and I love when bloggers participate and write on a single topic. You always get a diverse set of perspectives.
Here’s a quick rundown of each post:
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By Lance on Apr 7, 2011 in Sex | comments(11)
I thought about this question after reading two posts:
Pavlina’s point #6–Re-channel sex energy–struck a nerve. If you’re a busy creative dude, my recommendation is to only have sex once per week. Here’s why.
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By Lance on Apr 1, 2011 in Relationships | comments(5)
I think everyone should set some clear relationship goals before moving forward in their search for dating and mating. This may sound like obvious advice, but I think it’s worth exploring.
For some people, like guys and gals in their 20s, this isn’t so obvious. Ask yourself the question, what am I looking for?
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By Lance on Mar 21, 2011 in Sex | comments(3)
What Honey said in her post on sexual compatibility has been on my mind the last few days.
I had to search my memory banks to see if I ever had an encounter similar to what Honey described, where there was instant attraction that led to perfect sexual compatibility without a lot of flirting, talking, game, or other fluff in between. The way she describes it, it was just a perfect fit, from start to finish.
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By Lance on Mar 17, 2011 in Life | comments(4)
Since this is the month of inspiration at H&L, here is a most excellent quote by Gandhi:
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