These guys do thousands of approaches, go on hundreds of dates, and just plain socialize with many times more people than a regular person does, including some dating coaches. There’s insight to be had there, and if you can set aside the moral questions.

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I have read most of the above men’s blogs because the way to understand men is to immerse yourself in their world. Just like the best way to learn how to give a guy a blow job would be to read advice from gay men (who know what men like because, well, they’re guys and they give blow jobs!)

If men really want to learn how to relate to women, they need to do the same thing — read what’s being dished out by smart women columnists (emphasis on smart).

That said, the bigger issue isn’t how to pick up men or women — it’s how to be genuine in our interactions. Because if you are comfortable with who you are and can talk to men or women, attractive or not, without feeling that the conversation has to “get” you something or somewhere, you will probably find a lot more people with whom to connect. And isn’t that what we want?

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There’s Pickup Tara, who’s featured on the VH1 Pickup Artist show: http://www.pickuptara.com/

Far more men than women for sure, but if you do searches for “dating coaches” you’ll see more gals out there.

I did searches for dating advice blogs by women but didn’t find anything that really jumped out at me in terms of thought leadership, although I like Lynn Harris: http://www.breakupgirl.net/

She’s just a little mainstream for me. If you look in the sex blogger niche, though, you’ll find a TON of great content by female bloggers. A lot of the sex blogs cross over into relationships, but I didn’t include any of it on purpose because it’s not pure dating advice. I DO think Honey has one of the edgiest perspectives on dating & relating, so she should be on this list.

If anyone has any suggestions, feel free to reply. My list could use some female names on there, for sure.

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This has been on my mind A LOT lately (after I got quoted in the November issue of Real Simple magazine about how to pick up men):

Why are all the pick artists men?

Seriously.

It seems like there’s something missing here. Shouldn’t a woman be out there, too, teaching guys to get their game on? Honey?

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I’ve had the privilege of hanging out with The Asian Rake over the summer and the guy is truly amazing.

It’s really great to see him get some well deserved accolades.

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I have heard a lot of those guys that you mentioned but dont know about them in detail.

Thanks for the extra information =)

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@ Dadshouse.. I guess I’ll start looking out for the single parent list to come soon. I’d be interested in seeing how that list is created.

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