By Honey on Mar 26, 2011 in Featured, Marriage | comments(6)
Thought that since I’d shared so much of my journey with Jake with all of you, I’d share this as well! Jake and I got engaged on Friday, March 18. I kind of knew it was coming but I’d been wrong a few times before so I was trying not to get too excited. But now I’m thrilled!
It started when he planned a trip to Rocky Point, Mexico for us. We drove down on Wednesday (about a 4.5 hour drive) and came back on Sunday. We stayed at a resort called the Sonoran Sun (picture after the jump): Continued
By Lance on Mar 21, 2011 in Sex | comments(3)
What Honey said in her post on sexual compatibility has been on my mind the last few days.
I had to search my memory banks to see if I ever had an encounter similar to what Honey described, where there was instant attraction that led to perfect sexual compatibility without a lot of flirting, talking, game, or other fluff in between. The way she describes it, it was just a perfect fit, from start to finish.
By Lance on Mar 17, 2011 in Life | comments(4)
Since this is the month of inspiration at H&L, here is a most excellent quote by Gandhi:
By Honey on Mar 14, 2011 in Sex | comments(4)
Hey, all, Lance asked if I would come out of my bloggy retirement briefly to weigh in on sexual compatibility and what it means for Jake and I. Happy to do it!
First of all, I don’t think physical attraction is the same thing as compatibility. There have been times I thought it was, right up until the moment I started to get down and dirty with a guy, only to not be into it at all or (even worse) repulsed by the whole thing. Which is not to say that the guy was repulsive, or that he wanted to do anything repulsive, only to say that for whatever reason (pheromones, maybe?) we just didn’t do anything for each other at all. Talk about awkward, ugh. Continued
By Lance on Mar 13, 2011 in Sex | comments(5)
Howdy Sex Panthers!
Lately I’ve been talking about sexual compatibility and we have a roundtable in the works on the very subject. This post is my kickoff entry.
I’ve established that sexual compatibility is super important in a relationship, so when I’m dating, I want to know as soon as possible if I’m sexually compatible with a woman. Ideally, I would get this information within the first hour or two of a first date, but occasionally I can establish sexual compatibility prior to the first date, like in the email stages. I believe this is something that most people skip over or assume will work itself out during the relationship building process, which is a huge mistake. It’s often too late when you find out if you really connect in the bedroom and this leads to all sorts of problems, not the least of which is an unfulfilling sex life.
By Lance on Mar 10, 2011 in Life | comments(6)
Hello fellow Cheetahs, today’s post is totally badass. The reason why it’s badass is because it’s a list of ways to be FUCKING AWESOME TODAY, stuff you can do before you go to bed. Why fucking awesome? Because being awesome kicks ass and being not-awesome is totally lame.
Whatever you’re doing, wherever you are, make it your goal to be FUCKING AWESOME today. When you’re done with that, wake up and do it again tomorrow until forever.