You’re going to love this. I had a really wacky night of dates recently that completely went off the rails. Here’s the setup: I had been talking with this hot chick on Facebook that I went out with a few times last year…I blogged about it in my Keeping It Real post. I hadn’t seen nor talked to her since that date until recently when I ran into her while running. From there, we chitchatted over FB and I heated things up to the point where she agreed to meet for drinks and catch up. This chick was my type, an athlete, blonde, a little crazy, etc etc.
Archive for April, 2010
Posted on HuffPo, recent study shows that 11% of people under 25 interrupt sex to check texts and Facebook updates, 6% of users over 25 do the same. Also references another study that says 15% of people go coitus interruptus to answer their cell phones. Umm, yeah who hasn’t done that? What if there’s an important text from your buddy? Sometimes I’ll check my texts while I’m having sex.
There were some good comments on my post When I Act Dumb Chicks Want To Sleep With Me More, so I thought I’d write a followup and dive into how acting dumb makes you more attractive.
When I said I acted dumb what I meant was I act tactically dumb, that is, I might purposefully act clueless, shallow, jackassey, or not have an opinion on something in order to generate attraction. At first blush this might be perceived as being dumb, but if you unpack it this is what you get:
* I’ll act clueless about a subject in order to draw out conversation or pump up her enthusiasm about something. Honey mentioned this tactic in her comment. An example might be acting clueless about a genre of music so that she’ll get fired up about explaining it to me, even though I know tons of stuff about that genre. Everyone I know does this, knowingly or unknowingly.
As you may have noticed from the badge in our sidebar, H&L has been featured as an Editor’s pick on sexforums.com. You can see all of the picks and latest headlines on best.sexforums.com. I wrote a post recently on 7 sex blogs you should be reading and featured two blogs from Sex Forums. So they must have sniffed us out. I guess all that filthy sex Honey and I are writing about is getting around.