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Why I Wouldn’t Pay to Send My Kid To College

Lance and I got into a spirited debate in the comments of a recent post about whether or not parents should shoulder the costs for their children to go to college.  Now, this issue is moot for me for a couple reasons:

  1. I’m not having children, and
  2. Jake and I have $100K in student loan debt – APIECE – so between funding our retirement accounts (we got a late start on that, too, since we were already about 30) and paying off our own debts, there’s no way we could afford to send our kids to college even if we had any.

However, it does deserve consideration as a thought experiment about what you value, if nothing else.  Plus he encouraged me to do a separate post on it, so here you go!   

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How To Get A Totally Jacked Chest That Women Will Love

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Okay, who wants to have a totally jacked chest that will have chicks pawing at you? This guy right here does. Ups to Dadshouse who inspired me to write this from his comment in my post on destroying creepiness and improving your life.

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Jesus This Is Funny

Need some lolz to get you over the hump? Lance has your back. My sister forwarded me this YouTube Bud Light Commercial. Probably the funniest forward I’ve ever gotten. Watch in the privacy of your cube, it’s sorta NSFW. Guffaws will ensue.

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State Trooper Fired After Getting Hummer From Porn Star

TFIG you bastardz! As usual, H&L only brings you the very best of the web.

Tennessee State Trooper pulls over hot porn star, gets mad BJ in the squad car, takes video, ends up on blog, you can guess the rest. Porn Star, aka Barbie Cummings, still gets nailed for $180 speeding ticket. Is that move douchey or not douchey? You decide. Seriously, you can’t make this stuff up.

Quote of the week:

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The New iPad

Because it’s literally the first thing that I thought of when I heard the name of apple’s new tablet, I have to share:

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7 Ways To Destroy Creepiness and Improve Your Life (Part 2)

In my previous post on creepiness I talked about why guys get creepy and also tried to dispel a few misconceptions on creepiness and pickup arts. I stated that studying pickup and practicing social skills has improved every area of my life, and I meant it. Now it’s time to share some strategies anyone can use to destroy creepiness and get more social.

So without further ado, 7 ways to destroy creepiness and improve your social life. Read the full article